officially 6 months as soon as af comes

Bakin8th · #1 September 7th, 2008, 07:20 PM

Well I guess it time to join LOL

I had a fetal demise at 17w and it been officially 6 month this cycle.

I am Irene mom to 8 great kids and ttcing #9 again I have had 5 m/c and last 2 were at 17w.
My 7yr dd took 5 long yrs ttcing and my 7th child was a clomid baby after about 11 months ttcing.

I am waiting for af ( I am now 10dpo with clear BFN) to show and calling OB tomorrow for a fertility treatment appointment. I assume clomid again but he had suggested injects w/ IUI if clomid did not work last time and that was 3 yrs ago so we shall see what his plan will be.

I suffer from unexplained secondary infertility and annovlatory cycle's and Co-Host the ttcing large family baord.

xanada101 · #2 September 7th, 2008, 07:49 PM

My name is Toni, my DH is Steve.... we've been TTC our 1st together for 20 months now. I have never been PG, we are currently moving onto injections and IUI.

I'm sorry to hear about your losses. I hope that you don't have to struggle anymore and AF doesn't show!

snsgirl336 · #3 September 7th, 2008, 08:17 PM

Welcome! I'm Cris married to Shawn and we've been trying for our first since August 2007. I hope your stay here is short and that you don't have to suffer any more losses!

I'm sure you'll find everyone here very friendly, supportive and helpful!

~April04~ · #4 September 7th, 2008, 09:00 PM

Welcome! I'm April (21) married to Jeff (22). We're on Month 10 of TTC #1.

I'm very sorry to hear about your losses

I know how hard that is (I had one in '06 at 10 weeks)

SavaAngel · #5 September 7th, 2008, 10:22 PM

Welcome over here Irene.

cazza · #6 September 8th, 2008, 12:20 AM

Welcome!! I hope your stay is a short one!

Melanie0507 · #7 September 8th, 2008, 04:35 AM

Hi Irene!! I know we already know each other from TTCAL, but just wanted to say *hi* and welcome you here! This is a great group of women and I am glad to see you here!

~Lynda~ · #8 September 8th, 2008, 04:52 AM

Hi there Irene, I remember seeing you at the TTC board. I am so sorry for your losses. I recently had a m/c myself. I

you to the board and are very glad you found us!!! there are some really nice women here who completely understand how difficult it is ttc long term. you will find this a really nice group of ladies!!! again WELCOME!!!

DoulaMama · #9 September 8th, 2008, 06:46 AM

I've had recurrent miscarriages too... have you had testing to find out why you had too losses at 17 weeks?
welcome to ttc6+, I hope you're gone before you know it!

Bakin8th · #10 September 8th, 2008, 09:26 PM

Thank you ladies for such warm welcomes!

I had both babies I lost at 17w fully tested as well as CVS and Pathology on placenta's done and both times results were 100% normal Genitically and physically.

I had several tests done for clotting and antbodies issues and both come back normal and neg.

DoulaMama · #11 September 9th, 2008, 01:33 PM

Make sure your DR does tests to see that your uterus is ok.... that'd be my biggest worry.

I hope it was just a horrible coincidence and that you have a healthy bean inside in no time.

Bakin8th · #12 September 9th, 2008, 09:21 PM

I asked about that acually before I got pg with our last baby I Always have a check up to make sure my uteras is in tip top health and NO infections of any kind( sometimes that can start labor in 2nd tri)

I should mention my dr is the same dr who does my Prenatal has Delivered my babies and does all my PP check ups as well first baby visits. So she also intimitally knows my uteras in and out before dureing and after every birth LOL

I also have no signs of uteran prolapse or bladder prolapse so ladies when you get PG do your keagles!!! I swear they make a HUGE differnce!!

Plus I have never had a preterm baby or Preterm contraction in my life.

I have no adheasions or fibroids its ALL been checked out.

I bake babies so late that I am stripped to induce and useally have babies 3 hours later med free and never had a complication in a birth.

I have never had a c/s either so no scarring issue's. I have never had a issue dureing a pg such as Pre E, bed rest, placenta previa or any other issues that you can possably think of. I am boreing and unexciteing when it comes to pg and birth's for dr's LOL

My m/c's have been from the babies dieing in utero and thats the big puzzel that they have no anwers for me. Even though the stats are 1 in 3 do m/c. Statisicly I am exactly withen those stats. I have only ever run into complications( hemeraging) in my m/c's

If I was loseing babies from a weak or incompitent cervix/uteras or any other uteran issue. I would be loseing live babies or haveing some sort of placental abruptions prior to m/c..has not happened. Thankfull that has never been the issue but either way its still not something thats easy to go through for anyone.

So I really have been checked over, under and inside out LOL

I have never had a medical intervention dureing a birth and never ever have had a meds to induce a labor as my DR is very skilled in preserving the health of her multi tips.

Believe me I am very very careful and very diligent over my uteran health..its the only one I have

I am willing to turn over any stone left to get a answer. My Dr' The 2 OB's and the Peri have all said as far as they know this may never happen again and just be a freak thing.

I pray they are right.