[avtvav1]

I tried to stop myself but couldn't. I am 10-11 dpo and tested and you guessed it i got a bfn. I actually feel really foolish as I was so positive and early on in the ttw had some cramping and unnusual cm (which all disappeared after two days!).

I feel really bad, and the AF symptoms are getting stronger.

The only thing i can do look towards next month grrrrr... another month!

I am thinking of using those ovulation predictor strips. Dh said to just go ahead and order them. Do you have advice on which ones to get or tips when using them (really trying to occupy my mind woith something else).

[richmond_girl]

Sorry to hear about the BFN. I have wasted hundreds of dollars on BFNs, if it makes you feel better.

I use the Clear Blue Easy Fertility Monitor. It's expensive but if you're going to end up testing for more than a few months, it ends up being well worth it. I like it because it's very easy to use and since I've been using it (6 months), it's been 100% accurate in detecting my O dates - AF always shows up exactly 14 days after that little eggie appears. I highly recommend it if you think you will need to test for 3 or more months.

[SavaAngel]

Sorry AF is on her way. I use Answer's OPK's.

[avtvav1]

ok... I have just spent the last hour crying on my lounge because i am so pathetic. I was feeling really bad about my BFN's, and I hadn't really got much feedback.

So i just tested again (it is afternoon here and I already tested this morning... bfn).

So this is what happened, i dipped my stick in the cup waited a minute and then started crying again ( becuase my POAS addiction may finacially ruin us) when nothing showed so i left the bathroom. I went back after 5 min to check for a miracle and if you really squint there is the faintest line and I mean faintest line!

The problem is I am over the waiting period to read the results and I am out of pee to test again..........

Could this be it or am I grasping at straws...again.

I so need theropy!!!!!!!!!!!!

[SavaAngel]

I would test again in the morning. I hope the line is darker. Good Luck!

[avtvav1]

I would test again in the morning. I hope the line is darker. Good Luck![/b]

Thanks, you are always so positive!

[snsgirl336]

I would try another test in the morning... hopefully there will be a nice dark line on there for you!!! Good luck!

[drewbears]

((((HUGS)))))

I will start testing at 5DPO and KNOW that its gonna be negative and then feel all upset about it.

(((((HUGS)))))