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October 17th, 2008, 03:02 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Jacksonville, FL
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Well today my DH and I had our "plan of treatment" appt at our RE's office. He went over the results of the clomid challenge that I did. It turns out that i have diminished ovarian reserve. Basically my eggs are dying quicker than a normal person my age. He said that my uterus is also enlarged, my left tube is blocked (which I knew) and it all ties into the endometriosis, and DOR. This new revelation added to my DH's low sperm count/quality, he said that other than a miracle, IVF is our only option for conception. He wants me to have Laproscopy for the endo first before the IVF. He also said that most likely I will go through early menopause and that we only have about 5 years of good eggs left. So, I'm waiting to schedule the surgery and will go read the posts all about the laproscopy because I have NO clue what to expect!!!
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October 17th, 2008, 03:19 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: WI
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I'm so sorry *hugs* Did he mention freezing eggs so you have them later? I think that's an option for some women when they get this diagnosis. I hope you're doing well.
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October 17th, 2008, 03:44 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Virginia
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I am sooo sorry. I am sure this is the last thing you wanted to hear! At least it sounds like you have a great RE and a solid plan of attack. You are in my prayers! - Juli
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October 17th, 2008, 03:50 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am sorry 
I really hope you Lap goes well and makes things easier for you to achieve getting pg.
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October 17th, 2008, 04:07 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm sorry about the news... Keep us posted on when the lap is and everything..
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.
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October 17th, 2008, 06:37 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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o hun I am so sorry...
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October 19th, 2008, 04:16 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about this! I hope that you'll be able to get right in to have the lap and then right onto your IVF and your BFP.
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October 19th, 2008, 05:01 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am really sorry to hear this...BUT it does sound like you have a GREAT RE, and a good plan and I am SURE you will get your BFP soon!
I had a laparoscopy in 2001--and I got pregnant right after with my DD.
I can tell you what I remember from it--I went home from the hospital the same day, and really, my recovery was FINE. I slept for about 12 hrs straight after getting home---but then I was up and driving the next day.
I did have some abdominal pain, especially when coughing/walking, so holding a pillow over my tummy really helped.
I would say within 3-5 days I felt back to normal.
(((HUGS)))
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October 19th, 2008, 11:09 PM
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Mama to AJ & Katie
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I am so sorry - good luck with the lap surgery.
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October 20th, 2008, 07:19 AM
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Momma to 7, hoping for #8
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Oh sweetie! Im so sorry!!!! (((((HUGS))))))
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October 20th, 2008, 09:11 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Washington
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Alisa, I'm so sorry you had to get so much bad news at such a young age. You're in my T&P's!! Good luck with the surgery and the IVF (or frozen eggs if that's an option). KUP on your progress!
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