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October 25th, 2008, 11:36 AM
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Expecting a Miracle!
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: North Dakota
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Well I am back girls!!! Sorry I havent been on much! I needed some time away after getting my devastating BFN last month. But I have missed you girls like crazy!! Anyways here is my update:
Well, after I got my BFN I was devastated. I really could barely get out of bed for the first few days afterwards. I was a horrible b*tch to DH and our families too. It was just bad. Then to top it all off DH and I got into a HUGE fight on Wednesday. I seriously about walked out the door. Which is crazy, because the whole time we have been together (almost 5 years) we have NEVER had a fight like that. I just bawled for like 3 hours after. I really think all the stress of TTC has something to do with it. Anyways, in the middle of the fight I just broke down and started crying and screaming how all I want is to be a mom...thats it....then I made DH cry. He went on to tell me that my BFN this month really really hurt him too! That he was just trying to be strong for the both of us etc... It was so sweet of him to say and so so so cute! After that I couldnt be mad anymore! haha
So here is our plan for now. Since we are moving in a month and want to save some money we have decided to take a few months off of trying with Medical Assistance and just give it a try for ourselves again. We are hoping that maybe after all the hormones I have been on, my body will have been able to figure something out on its own, so we will see. I am also not temping or using OPKs at all this cycle. This cycle is going to be all about us having fun and enjoying our time together. I may start using OPKs again after this cycle, and prolly will temp, but other than that we are just going to relax. We will continue to take our vitamins, but not just for TTC, but more because they are good for us and made us feel better. Once we get settled after graduating and moving we will re-evaluate again and maybe start TTCMA in March or April if things havent happened for us yet. I really hope that just relaxing is all we need to do! But I will be on here ALOT more again now!! I really really missed you girls ALOT!! You are all so great!!!
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October 25th, 2008, 01:11 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Posts: 1,292
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I hope relaxing and trying not to focus so much on "TTC" does the trick for you!
(((HUGS))) I think we all know how frustrating and devastating it can be every month, month after month....this is definitely the place to be for support from people who know what you're going through!
Glad you are in a better frame of mind about everything....never give up...it WILL happen for you!
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October 25th, 2008, 01:19 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Long Island,NY
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Isn't it weird sometimes how a good Fight will bring you closer to someone. I have a good feeling for you now  Just really try not to stress and enjoy like you said!! I will try and take my own advice too 
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October 25th, 2008, 01:22 PM
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Mama to AJ & Katie
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: League City, Texas
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I hope the relaxing and "me/us" time works for you and you get your BFP very soon! 
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October 25th, 2008, 01:25 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Virginia
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Good luck! It sounds like you and DH have found a comfortable and happy place to be in at this point of your journey. I am sure this relaxing/stress-free approach will do the trick!
I love your new siggie by the way. Gorgeous wedding pics!
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October 25th, 2008, 02:48 PM
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Wishy
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: UK
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It sounds like you have a plan. I really hope that all the hormones will have some effect for you and that you get your long awaited BFP. Good Luck!!!
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Thanks for the lovely siggy Claire!
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October 25th, 2008, 06:25 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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i knew you were going through a hard time!!!! it's unusual to not see you here so for so long!!! we missed you too, but totally understand how time away is necessary!! glad you are back and i hope the non stress method is just what you need!!! HUGS GIRL
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October 25th, 2008, 06:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Maryland
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October 25th, 2008, 06:48 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: The Land of Infertility
Posts: 16,090
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It sounds like you have a plan. I really hope that all the hormones will have some effect for you and that you get your long awaited BFP. Good Luck!!![/b]
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 I hope this is what does it for you hun!!
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.
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October 25th, 2008, 09:10 PM
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Expecting a Miracle!
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October 25th, 2008, 10:00 PM
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Mama to AJ & Katie
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: League City, Texas
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Enjoy!
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October 26th, 2008, 04:27 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Upstate NY
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 Awww Alicia! We've missed you around here, but I think we can all understand. I'm glad your back though! I'm sorry you had a hard time with everything this month. It sounds like you have a nice plan for you guys. I hope that the stress free loving and living will be just what you need!!! Enjoy it!
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