[instant_oatmeal]

For af to show. She's due today. I took a test this morning bfn. I was really hoping to surprise dh this weekend by telling him about a bfp. Now I don't know when we'll really be able to try again since we won't be living together til April. I'm so sick of being let down every month. I feel like giving up.

[iamkc]

Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry about your BFN. Remember, though, that many women don't get their BFPs until AF is several days late. What test did you use? Do you have any signs of AF?

I think that all of us feel like giving up at some point...the weird part is, that as soon as we swear it off, we're right back here asking about what to do to prepare for BDing and ovulation and such. Wannabemoms are a strange breed, aren't we? You should allow yourself some breathing room in this whole process. Know that if you want to step back for a while or if you need to post every 10 minutes to make it easier, we all support you. Here's hoping, though, that AF doesn't show today!!!

And off topic, I LOVE your signature with all the cat stuff...adorable!

[barrycarrot]

I'm sorry about your BFN but dont give up hope yet. I know it's easy to get you down, but we have to stick it out. It's the only way we'll reach our goal one day - A BABY! Good luck hon.

[instant_oatmeal]

Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry about your BFN. Remember, though, that many women don't get their BFPs until AF is several days late. What test did you use? Do you have any signs of AF?

I think that all of us feel like giving up at some point...the weird part is, that as soon as we swear it off, we're right back here asking about what to do to prepare for BDing and ovulation and such. Wannabemoms are a strange breed, aren't we? You should allow yourself some breathing room in this whole process. Know that if you want to step back for a while or if you need to post every 10 minutes to make it easier, we all support you. Here's hoping, though, that AF doesn't show today!!!

And off topic, I LOVE your signature with all the cat stuff...adorable![/b]

Thanks! I'm a huge cat person. lol I used the equate test. I had some cramps last night but they're gone now. What would I do without all of you and your support? Its great since I can't just call dh and cry to him whenever I feel down. At least I have you guys.

[Blue Eyes 409]

Maybe you ovulated late and it is just to early for a BFP don't give up.

[medicgirl]

HI...I know how you feel, she was five days late and she showed today Of course my hopes were so high at that point...I really thought I hasd it this month. Not to mention that I have now wasted 4 tests!! Now I am on day 1 when I should be on cycle day 5. ARRRGH!!

[rinty68]

I know how disheartening TTC can be,
We are on cycle 19 now
What i would say is just focus on your next cycle if you arent lucky on this one,
as thats all we can do really. Its taken me agea to get to this point.
Its the hardest thing to deal with il agree.
We are all here for you so dont worry.
I really hope you POAS too early and you get that BFP!

Good luck and keep on going, its a long road but the outcome soooo worth it


Sarah