I'm sorry that you feel like you're hitting a brick wall, Kim...but really, it's more like a Jell-O wall.

You're getting somewhere, just not very fast. I hope that you're able to find out a little more and I can't WAIT for you to get your Medicaid cards--THAT should start speeding things along, right?
As for BCP, I'm not a fan, and since you're TTC, I'm betting that you're not a fan. There are other things that they can do, so I'd be sure to sit down for a longer chat with a doc before starting.
Now, go enjoy your weekend!