Same here--6-ish feet and lots of muscle. I don't think that the docs are used to someone having that high number on the scales and it NOT being a bad thing!

I wouldn't worry too much about it at all!!! Ignore your doc and look for a new one if you have that option.
Is she going to put you on Clomid??? It seems like that would be the next logical step instead of just saying, "You're fat" and leaving it at that...especially when that's not true.
I'm sorry that you had such a bad experience. TTC is already so emotional without inconsiderate and insensitive docs to make it that much worse for you!!!

and let us know what the next step is (after you kick the doc's *****, of course!).