Sorry I've been missing

Joannedw · #1 February 4th, 2009, 04:50 PM

I haven't been around since my M/C in the beginning of January. I thought the DR told me I had to take a break for a month of TTC because it would be an increased risk of another M/C. So I was soooo happy for AF to come today and finally thought I could start again. NOPE!!!! When I called my DR he said I now have to wait AOTHER MONTH for my uterine lining to shed properly

It was bad enough that this was going to be my last month trying because I have been trying for almost a year and 1/2 now and originally I wanted my 2 1/2 yr old and the baby to be around 2 yrs apart....well obviously that came and went so now all I wanted was to make sure they would be in high school together ( 9th & 12 grade) so this month was going to be my last chance for that

. So is this really the end of the road

???????

richmond_girl · #2 February 4th, 2009, 06:17 PM

I replied in your other post too - just wanted to give you more

snsgirl336 · #3 February 4th, 2009, 06:28 PM

I'm so sorry that you have to wait another cycle. I can't imagine how frustrating that is! I hope that you get your sticky sticky bean as soon as you can try again!!!

drewbears · #4 February 5th, 2009, 03:57 AM

((((((HUGS))))))) Im so sorry.

~Lynda~ · #5 February 5th, 2009, 05:22 AM

Joann WE MISSED YOU!!!

okay girl, i'm not trying to be a medical professional, but you do not have to wait another month. i have never heard of that. that is crazy. i m/c'd 2x in the past and we had to wait ONE cycle, that was it. my dr. told me that they just do that for dating purposes and to err on the cautious side. LOTS of women conceive right after they m/c. they don't even wait ONE cycle and they are fine. I would poke around here - especially go into TTC after a Loss and you can get lots of info there. you are also more fertile after a m/c.

I'm glad to see you back. I'm not glad to see you sad. I say GO FOR IT!!!!! but once again, i'm not a doctor and i don't play one on TV!!! G/L

HUGS

Joannedw · #6 February 5th, 2009, 07:01 AM

Thanks girls!!! See the problem is the way I got preggers a couple of months ago was my DR had me on hormone theropy and clomid and I have NONe of that for this cycle so without his help I don't even think I could get preggers

~Lynda~ · #7 February 5th, 2009, 07:23 AM

i'm just gonna tell you to check out Shayna. She's in my ddc. she couldn't get a bfp on her own. so she went to medical assistance and when they were taking a break, in a non medicated cycle. she got her miracle bfp!!!! so stranger things have happened. LUCK LUCK LUCK!!!!