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February 13th, 2009, 09:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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i'm so sorry to lean on you ladies, but right now i am feeling an incredible sense of "not belonging" everywhere. I don't feel like i have much to add in the ttc boards cause i'm in limbo. i don't feel like i have much to add in my ddc for obvious reasons. i feel so very very alone right now.
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February 13th, 2009, 10:03 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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We love you and are here for you. NEVER be sorry for leaning on a friend's shoulder, and that's what we are. More HUGS and HUGS and HUGS for you. 
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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.
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February 13th, 2009, 10:19 AM
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Veteran
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We all are here for you Lynda...I know this is a difficult time for you.You are in my thoughts.Hopefully you will get good news soon after 2 weeks.Lots of hugs for you dear.
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February 13th, 2009, 10:54 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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We are always here for you Lynda - no matter what the situation!!! I'm so sorry you are feeling alone. I wish I could give you a big hug right now. I will continue to pray for you and your little bean...
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February 13th, 2009, 11:10 AM
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Hi Lynda,
I know how much what you are going through hurts. Wile I don't expect it to make you feel better, I had a very late "missed miscarriage". I suspected that something was wrong when all of my symptoms suddenly disappeared one night, but my friends all called me paranoid and told me to enjoy a symptom free pregnancy. well, i knew something was wrong and went to the hospital where they told me there was no heartbeat. I felt so terribly alone, and for some reason, rather than seeking the comfort of the people i knew, I avoided them all like the plague. I used to go to a wonderful organic butcher, and while i was just a customer, I felt so ridiculously close to them. I couldn't handle the 'pity', or whatever you want to call it, so i avoided them and many others who would ask questions. I'm embarassed to say that I sill haven't been back. and that was 2 years ago. It's a painful thing to go through, and I am so sorry you are experiencing it. big, big hug. you will feel better.
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February 13th, 2009, 12:22 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Isn't the reason for being here is to have a place to "lean" ? !
I think we all are looking for support, love and a place to rant when we need to.
Sometimes co-workers, family, clergy ... just isn't it. It has to be women going through
the same or similar things ..
Lean away Lynda ... we will catch you !
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February 13th, 2009, 01:23 PM
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Don't feel back Lynda - we are always here for you to lean on as you would be if we needed someone to lean on! Big hugs to you!
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February 14th, 2009, 05:18 AM
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thanks ladies, my mood is much better today. i have decided to leave it up to God and I will trust whatever decision he makes. I will fight and pray for this baby till the bitter end. So in two weeks, i am truly praying for a miracle, but i've read stories where others have had it happen!!! so for two weeks i shall keep the faith!!! thanks for all your kind words. I may need them again in 2 weeks, but i pray i am posting my miracle instead!! HUGS
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February 14th, 2009, 05:46 AM
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I am praying for a miracle too Lynda. I hope you get a very very happy surprise!
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February 14th, 2009, 06:03 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am praying for a miracle too Lynda. I hope you get a very very happy surprise![/b]
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February 14th, 2009, 07:06 AM
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God works in wonderful ways sometimes and we get a miracle.We just need to keep faith.i am really hoping you get very good news in 2 weeks.I have you in my prayers.Hugs and more Hugs
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February 14th, 2009, 07:29 AM
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God works in wonderful ways sometimes and we get a miracle.We just need to keep faith.i am really hoping you get very good news in 2 weeks.I have you in my prayers.Hugs and more Hugs[/b]
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February 14th, 2009, 07:44 AM
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I am praying for your bean, Lynda! Keep the faith, your baby needs that. I can't wait to hear good news in 2 weeks.
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February 14th, 2009, 07:50 AM
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 Lynda we are here for you no matter what. We know these next 2 weeks will be difficult and we are here for you whenever you need us. I hope that everything turns out okay in 2 weeks.
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February 15th, 2009, 09:21 AM
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Lynda, please know that we are all here for you no matter what... I can't imagine what you're feeling right now, but please know that we are all thinking of you and sending you lots of positive thoughts and prayers...
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