[Katlynsmommy]

sorry i havent been here the last few days i am in a rutt lol and its not easy i dont know if it is just my horomones leveling out or what but let me tell ya it stinks!!! i am soo over feelin like u know what.i am trying really hard to keep my head up but finding it difficult.any suggestions? See the thing is i dont have many friends around here and the ones i do have dont come over b/c well they just dont wanna lol.and i dont really get out to much when i try to it turns around and i get stuck at home again.i realized today i dont go anywhere when dh said he had to go to the bank and i jumped at the chance just to get out of the house crazy i know! Then there is this whole thing where af never came and now she came i am not feelin hopeful anymore.i just feel like it will Never happen to me.dh is never home anymore we barely spend time together and when he is here i am sooo tired all i wanna do is sleep.dd is just out of control i cant control anything with her anymore everyone tells me its a kid thing? well i am getting to the point of giving up. and i know that is not something that should be said but i am actually at that point where i feel no one cares about how i feel here in my family.its all about everyone else and what is going on with them.i guess i am just having a pity party for myself. Im sorry for posting this i just need some encouragement here.

TY for listening

[Blue Eyes 409]

How many times do I have to tell you MOVE TO TENNESSEE!!!!! I too have a lot of friends that I talk to but not really any that I can go and see and hang out with. I do have a job so I get out and see people so I do get out I know how hard it is to stay at home and not have anyone to hang out with. You know I am here anytime that you want to talk.

[Katlynsmommy]

ty hon,i know move to tennessee haha yeah like he will do that for me! not when his business is booming here.its cool though.i am just in a mood shift 2nite.well the last few nites anyway i am sure i will get thru it.

[medicgirl]

Hi! I just wanted to say that I know how you feel. When I finished University I moved to where the jobs were and my friends all went their separate ways as well. I don't have any friends where I am living right now except for the people I see at work. Unfortunately that is only at shift change and they are older than I am with grown up kids of their own. My dh's friends are all guys and I really miss having girlfriends of my own. I joined a volunteer program so that I could meet some new people but they are all in their 60's! Very nice people but no one I could really hang out with. I'm not really sure what to do now...Maybe when I have children I can find some sort of mommy group or something.

[crowdreamer]

I know how you feel too. I used to have friends that I hung out with, until I got married, and now I hardly ever get out. I am stuck in the house with my DH and SS (11) most of the time, DH doesn't like me to do anything without him. He doesn't "insist" that I stay home, just gives a good guilt trip when I go anywhere without him. I work in my own office by myself, so I don't see anyone else during the day. I have often been depressed, just went through a bout of it last month.

Try taking some 5-HTP (over-the-counter), it contains tryptophan, which helps with depression. And find a way to get out, I have joined a weekly support group that my counselor formed, I'm hoping that will help me feel like I'm in touch with other women again.

[iamkc]

Hmph...I understand. My friends and I have very different lifestyles. 3 spend all their time gaming together and a few others spend all their time drinking together. Another has kids and lives a little far out to be able to do much or even have people over regularly. I hang out with my sister, her BF (who was actually my friend before being her BF), another friend, DH, and his parents. We also hang out with his sister and her family, but usually, she pawns the kids off on us to do something else, so we don't really see her. And you're right--no one ever asks, they just assume that you'll do what they want and need. Fine, but it's nice to have someone show they care once in a while.

I'm so sorry, Kim. Would it help at all to sit your DH down and talk with him about it all? What to do about DD, spending time with him, etc...If you're wearing yourself down, you'll be no good for yourself or anyone else.

I hope it gets better soon...

[Katlynsmommy]

ty everyone for the support its just been rough for me lately i have tried talkin to dh but well we know how men can be.he has one thing on his mind and one thing only and thats bd'ng! right now i just dont want that either. i know alot of it is horomones which is cool today i started to cramp again and then had a tint of color to the TP when i wiped(TMI SORRY) but then it stopped and my ovary started to do a dance! in july i O'd on cd 10 i wonder if thats gonna happen again? i guess bd'ng isnt out of the question lol.i guess its just a small little pitty party for me.i just feel down.talkin about it helps and when i see the responses here that helps a big deal!!! ty all so much i do feel a bit better today