Remember those three follies....

Ash · #1 March 27th, 2009, 05:54 AM

Well, I guess all of that was for nothing because I got a BFN this morning. Don't ask me why in the world I tested, but I did! I am 10 DPO and some people will say "maybe it's too early", but I only have a 12 day LP in the first place, so I can expect to start spotting tomorrow.

Booooo....I hate this!

~*Jackie*~ · #2 March 27th, 2009, 05:58 AM

I really hope you're wrong and your body is just playing tricks on you.

Ash · #3 March 27th, 2009, 06:02 AM

Thanks, Jackie. I think it is probably a good thing that we are taking a MA break next cycle. I think I need to get my head back in the game. This means that I won't have a baby until at least 2010, and since my birthday is Jan 1st, that means the earliest that I can possibly get pregnant is when I am 32! That part totally stresses me out.

Christine-MA · #4 March 27th, 2009, 07:03 AM

ugh I'm so sorry! I too hope you are wrong, but I'm not going to give you the "maybe it's too early spiel" (however you spell that). Although I admit I hope it is!

I do understand the age thing, having just turned 30. Although 6 months ago the concern never crossed my mind. I have had numerous (like countless) people who have had kids in their 20s and 30s tell me they think they are "better" parents to the ones they had later. My aunt had 2 in her early 20s, then one at 32 and one at 40 and she told me now is the best time to do it (not like I'm waiting for anything except to get pregnant!).

I'm rambling, sorry! I wish I could make you feel better

~Lynda~ · #5 March 27th, 2009, 07:11 AM

even though your lp is 12 days, if you implanted today, you wouldn't have hcg until sunday. so you are NOT out girl!!! i don't want to give you false hopes, but your reasoning for it being too early isn't correct!!! most ladies don't implant till later and get a bfp at 12dpo.

don't give up yet!!! HUGS and LUCK!!!

Ash · #6 March 27th, 2009, 07:18 AM

Lynda, I hope you are right....

snsgirl336 · #7 March 27th, 2009, 08:13 AM

Oh no Ash... I'm so sorry about the BFN.... I'm really gonna pray that you get a nice surprise in the next day or two.

I can kind of understand you on the age thing. I always thought I'd be done having kids by the time I was 30, but since I turn 29 next week, I'm really thinking that unless we get pregnant VERY soon and it's multiples, that won't happen. I just keep telling myself I'll be a better mother with the wisdom and life experiences I gain each year. I'm not sure that really helps, but it's worth a shot.

Lots of

coming your way!

Ash · #8 March 27th, 2009, 08:36 AM

Thanks girls, I know I am such a whiner. I wouldn't blame you if you were totally SICK of me (but I hope you aren't)!

~*Jackie*~ · #9 March 27th, 2009, 08:45 AM

OMG are you kidding? Not a whiner at all. My goodness, girl. We all know how it feels (unfortunately) and how we have to get it off of our chest because it hurts so bad each month.

Never think you're going to be gotten sick of!

snsgirl336 · #10 March 27th, 2009, 08:50 AM

Please don't say you're a whiner! You are totally not!!! I'm surprised you are all still putting up with me and all my drama these past few weeks! We're all here for you and we always will be cause we love you!

Christine-MA · #11 March 27th, 2009, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by jcbaby

OMG are you kidding? Not a whiner at all. My goodness, girl. We all know how it feels (unfortunately) and how we have to get it off of our chest because it hurts so bad each month.

Never think you're going to be gotten sick of!

Ash · #12 March 27th, 2009, 09:01 AM

Ok, so I am crying now...you girls are the best!

Soape · #13 March 27th, 2009, 09:12 AM

Your not a whiner. It's hard every month and it only gets harder to see those negatives. I do hope that a miracle happens and it ends up being a BFP in a few days. We love ya!!!

SavaAngel · #14 March 27th, 2009, 10:56 AM

Not a whiner at all - we all need to complain about it or we would go crazy in the silence. I hope you get a surprise in a couple days.

~Lynda~ · #15 March 27th, 2009, 11:12 AM

oh you are so NOT a whiner!!! weeeee love uuuuuuuuuuu!!!!

HUGS

ChristinaR · #16 March 27th, 2009, 11:40 AM

Big (((HUGS))) Ashley. You're not a whiner. It's totally understandable. I hope you get a surprise bfp in a couple days.

adam*s_mami · #17 March 27th, 2009, 01:42 PM

OMG Ash complain all you want...remember my first cycle on MA and all I did was complain and you all listen in the Clomid chicks thread.....thats what we are here for...I just wish that what Lynda says is true and that you just implanted...i so want you to get your BFP you deserve it!

KDD · #18 March 27th, 2009, 04:02 PM

I agree with Lynda. I don't think you're out yet. Besides, with so many of us sending you positive vibes you can't be out yet!

And complain all you want! Goodness knows I've done my fair share of whining! I think we all need some support every now and then.

ASH_M · #19 March 28th, 2009, 07:46 AM

I agree with Lynda - you're not officially out yet because you could've just implanted and HCG won't show up for a while. You're not out until AF shows - and hopefully she will hold off this month. Good luck

richmond_girl · #20 March 28th, 2009, 09:00 AM

My last m/c was 5 days before my 30th birthday. Believe me, I KNOW what it feels like to have that clock ticking!!

But all in all, 32 is still VERY young as it relates to fertility. And, if you're TTCwMA, your chance of multiples goes up, so you could still have 2-3 kids by the time you're in your mid-30s

I'm sorry about the BFN... I know it's hard to see that month after month. Lynda is right though, it takes 48-72 hours for hcg levels to be detected in urine, so if you didn't implant till 10 dpo, the earliest you would see a BFP is 12dpo.

HUGS!!