how many

~Lynda~ · #1 March 27th, 2009, 07:13 AM

serious relationships did you have before you met DH???

I had 5

Christine-MA · #2 March 27th, 2009, 07:30 AM

Two I guess. One for like 6 years, the other for one. I did date someone else for probably close to a year, but I wouldn't consider that as having been too serious. And then the others in between lol

Ash · #3 March 27th, 2009, 07:34 AM

I would say two serious ones. They both ended up cheating on me....losers!

One of them was a highschool sweetheart and the other was an early college sweetheart. The early college guy was killed in a car accident, so that is what broke us up (obviously). In retrospect though, he wasn't my soulmate.

~*Jackie*~ · #4 March 27th, 2009, 08:21 AM

I've been with DH since I was 15 (2 days before I turned 16), so I can honestly say none other than DH. I did have an on-again-off-again for a year before DH and I got together for good. I wouldn't call it serious, but if I hadn't met DH, I have a feeling it would have lasted for a long time, although it wouldn't have survived 4 years away at college.

snsgirl336 · #5 March 27th, 2009, 08:34 AM

I honestly wouldn't consider my past relationships very serious at all. I only had 3 boyfriends before I met DH. One in High school, two early in college. Nothing lasted longer than 6 months cause they were losers!

I met DH when I was 20 (which I consider fairly young) and knew he was the one for me right away.

Soape · #6 March 27th, 2009, 09:27 AM

I had 3. One was a high school sweetheart that I dated for 4 years (he cheated on me) we got engaged the last two years of our relationship. Then I had a 2 year relationship in junior college, (he cheated on me). Then I dated a guy for the 2 years while I was finishing up senior college for my first degree, (he cheated as well). So when I finally met DH I thought all men were losers...but he changed my mind.

SavaAngel · #7 March 27th, 2009, 11:05 AM

What I thought was serious then.....4 maybe - but they all ended up cheating on me too - except one (he left me after he took my virginity).

ChristinaR · #8 March 27th, 2009, 11:46 AM

My only serious relationsip has been with my hubby. I met him a week before my 16th Birthday and have been together ever since. We did break up for about 6 months when I was 23 and dated other people but nothing serious.

adam*s_mami · #9 March 27th, 2009, 01:54 PM

I had 2, one for 4 years, and the other about a year but I was madly in love with him, and both cheated on me with ppl related to me.....guess that is the problem when all your family lives in the same city and you have a gazillion cousins......

KDD · #10 March 27th, 2009, 03:56 PM

I can't say that I had any "serious" relationships before DH. I once dated a guy off and on for 8 months, but otherwise I only dated a bit. I met DH when I was 20 and we've been together ever since!

ASH_M · #11 March 28th, 2009, 07:54 AM

None. I dated one guy in high school. That only lasted a few weeks, and then I realized he was just going to be a really good friend - so nothing serious. I knew DH in high school (we were both in marching band together), but honestly neither of us liked the other one - as in didn't like him as a person. He graduated one year before me, and I guess he changed a little his freshman year of college. We have a mutual friend that invited us both to different events over the summer after I graduated high school. We realized that we were wrong about each other in high school, and went on our first date the night before I moved away for college. So our first four years of dating was long-distance. He's been my only serious relationship.