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March 30th, 2009, 05:16 PM
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that people think because we have two children this long TTC road doesn't hurt?

Of course I love my boys but my love for them has nothing to do with my love and yearning for another baby to bless our family. Every month that ticks by is like another stab to my heart. I just wish people understood that this is still hard and I still have the right to be upset.
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March 30th, 2009, 05:26 PM
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I don't think we'll ever understand why people feel entitled to share their opinions on our fertility. Infertility hurts regardless of how many children you have already.
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March 30th, 2009, 06:16 PM
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All I can say is I am so sorry about this!! Its not fair at all! We are all here for you all the time!
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March 30th, 2009, 07:52 PM
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Sometimes people are so ignorant and don't think about how their feelings affect other people. I agree with Kim, infertility hurts no matter how many children you have. It doesn't make it any easier TTC when you have other children
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March 30th, 2009, 08:57 PM
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I know exactly how you feel Jenn! And if one more person tells me, "you had one before you will have another" speech again I will haul off and slap them senseless I swear!
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March 30th, 2009, 09:03 PM
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I don't think we'll ever understand why people feel entitled to share their opinions on our fertility. Infertility hurts regardless of how many children you have already.
I totally agree.... Though I am hoping that once I do get pregnant, I can maybe help some people I know realize they need to become more sensitive about the comments they make regarding having children...
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March 31st, 2009, 06:26 AM
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The road is hard for anyone dealing with infertility. Some people just don't understand it.
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IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
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March 31st, 2009, 10:48 AM
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I know exactly how you feel Jenn! And if one more person tells me, "you had one before you will have another" speech again I will haul off and slap them senseless I swear!
Exactly!

I knew I could count on you ladies to understand!
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