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April 1st, 2009, 11:50 PM
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Mama to AJ & Katie
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Location: League City, Texas
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It has taken me awhile to post this cause I have been trying to block it out of my head but it keeps hitting me in the face how unfair life is!
Yesterday I got a call from my sister and BIL. I was really surprised they called at all - I get maybe a call a year and that has been when my neice (she is 2 years younger than me) has had one of her kids or when my nephew was told he was going to be going off to Iraq. So sure enough I was expecting the worst being he is in Iraq right now, but I soon found out what the news was.
They hand the phone to my other nephew and he tells me his is going to be a father. "Oh um, congratulations". In my head I am thinking "no way" and "awww man" - AJ's favorite phrases lately. Then they ask if we are going to have anymore "Yep, we are trying" Don't you know it happens when you aren't trying? (Kid, you may be bigger than me but I could so slap you right now) "Yes - that's how we got AJ" hahaha. I add something about it being over a year and then my sister gets on the phone and says his girlfriend is due in September - baby should be here before my birthday - well here I am thinking yay for me - another baby for me to never see and wonder why I can't have one. There was more to the conversation but I blocked what I could out.
I so hope I am pregnant by the time that baby arrives or I am going to be one unhappy Great Aunt! How many phone calls do you think I can avoid before they stop calling with the good news when August/September rolls around?
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April 2nd, 2009, 04:50 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Texas
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 I am sorry! That totally sucks! I am just waiting for that same phone call.
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April 2nd, 2009, 05:17 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: The Land of Infertility
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I totally understand. 
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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.
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April 2nd, 2009, 05:22 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2005
Location: NJ
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I am so sorry, I know how much that sucks!
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April 2nd, 2009, 05:33 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: MA
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I understand too I've learned in the last couple weeks that 5 people I know are expecting! Two of them stung more than the others though. It isn't fair at all
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April 2nd, 2009, 06:35 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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It really isn't fair...
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April 2nd, 2009, 07:42 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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oh hun, i know how much that hurts!!!!! advice from people you know, who don't know HALF of what you know about ttc, sucks!!! sorry and HUGS HUGS and HUGS!!!
you know people always wish for world peace when asked aloud, maybe we should start asking if the world could just be fair! cause it stinks that it's not!!!
HUGS again!
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April 2nd, 2009, 08:37 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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I am so sorry. I have gotten alot of those phone calls lately too!! It is like you smile and pretend to be excited, when really you just want to punch your hand through a wall !!!
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April 2nd, 2009, 09:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: Tyler, Texas
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I'm soooo sorry sweetie. I hope it happens for you soon.
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April 2nd, 2009, 03:54 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Alberta, Canada
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I'm sorry Christina. I think we've all been there, but it doesn't make it easier.
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April 2nd, 2009, 04:09 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Arkansas
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I'm sorry Christina. I understand how painful that is. I really hope you get your bfp soon.
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April 2nd, 2009, 05:14 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Oh I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I really hope it happens soon for you.
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