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April 20th, 2009, 11:59 PM
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Mama to AJ & Katie
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Location: League City, Texas
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UGH! Someone in my PR was trying for just this month and just got a flipping BFP! Ahhhhh!
Oh, and if you remember I said my nephew was having a kid in September - its my YOUNGEST nephew from that sister - he is 17!
Can I throw something now?!!!!!
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April 21st, 2009, 02:36 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Texas
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I am totally with you girl! I say definitely throw something!! Last night, I saw a girl from another board seriously whining because she had to move on to month TWO!!! I was like, SERIOUSLY....I wanna slap you right now. But, I put on m PC JM hat and didn't say a word! 
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April 21st, 2009, 02:47 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Canada
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Can I throw something too? I got yet another BFN this morning! Headed for a meltdown soon! CD 58 today and still waiting... 
I hate when someone gets it the first try too! Let's all let out a scream together!
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April 21st, 2009, 05:41 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: The Land of Infertility
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I'm with you ladies! GRRRRRRR! 
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.
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April 21st, 2009, 05:45 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I've been on both sides of this--easy BFP and ones I really have to work for. There is no rhyme or reason to it it seems. I wish it was always as simple as just having sex and then bam, pregnant! Even though I've been one of those women who got an easy BFP in the past, right now I'm totally with you--I'd love to punch something really hard! Every time I hear, see, read about someone's BFP (especially in the first 3 months) it's really hard for me even though I'm happy for them. I wouldn't want anyone to have to go through month after month of trying...
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April 21st, 2009, 07:55 AM
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Mama to AJ & Katie
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Quote:
Originally Posted by **Jenn**
I've been on both sides of this--easy BFP and ones I really have to work for. There is no rhyme or reason to it it seems. I wish it was always as simple as just having sex and then bam, pregnant! Even though I've been one of those women who got an easy BFP in the past, right now I'm totally with you--I'd love to punch something really hard! Every time I hear, see, read about someone's BFP (especially in the first 3 months) it's really hard for me even though I'm happy for them. I wouldn't want anyone to have to go through month after month of trying...
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I am with you there - we got pregnant with my son when we weren't preventing. First month off the pill - walla!
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April 21st, 2009, 09:59 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I think it makes this harder when you've had really easy BFPs in the past. You assume it will be just as easy again and when it's not its really hard to take.
My first pregnancy was conceived while on BCP and then after we lost the baby it took 28 months before we conceived Liam. Then another easy BFP with Loch and now again this is taking longer than expected. I'm sensing a pattern here...
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April 21st, 2009, 10:15 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Tyler, Texas
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I don't know if I would say that it makes it harder....I think each one of us feels like our situation is hard...to compare it to someone else's hard time of TTC would be wrong. I think we are all in the same boat...and it's HARD no matter if we have children, pregnancies, Miscarriages, or never had a BFP in our lives.
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April 21st, 2009, 11:27 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Soape
I don't know if I would say that it makes it harder....I think each one of us feels like our situation is hard...to compare it to someone else's hard time of TTC would be wrong. I think we are all in the same boat...and it's HARD no matter if we have children, pregnancies, Miscarriages, or never had a BFP in our lives.
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I just meant it is harder for me, personally. I didn't mean to generalize (I tend to do that when I don't mean to) and I'm sorry if I offended anyone.
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April 21st, 2009, 12:34 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Wisconsin
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yea, i've been trying for over a year and a good friend of mine got her bfp on cycle 3. i'm very happy for her, cause i wouldn't wish this insanity on anyone!!!! but there are days i want to scream too!!!!
hang in there!!!
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April 21st, 2009, 04:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Alberta, Canada
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I like to use stress balls - to throw that is!
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April 21st, 2009, 05:13 PM
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Last month after I got my BFN I threw a piece of string cheese at the door b/c it was not opening easily and I was frustrated with not being pregnant  , so I can say I HAVE actually thrown things over not being pregnant.
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