Do you ever

MommaLee · #1 May 18th, 2009, 01:02 PM

feel relaxed about ttc?

I'm on month 14 (cycle 14) on ttc - I have my first infertility appt on June 5th - and I'm actually kind of mellowed out this cycle only because I know we are finally...finally...finally getting assistance.

I'm thinking...someone will finally give us some ANSWERS!!!

SavaAngel · #2 May 18th, 2009, 01:04 PM

I haven't been mellowed since a few months into the process. I was pretty mellow to begin with - thinking we got pregnant so easily with AJ (not trying) and that it might take a few months - but by 8 months I was calling my doctor, by 9 months I was on clomid, 11 months I had a trans vaginal u/s and found out I have PCOS and STILL haven't gotten my BFP. So nope - I haven't had the mellow-ness in over a year.

I hope you get your answers quickly and easily!

I haven't been mellowed since a few months into the process. I was pretty mellow to begin with - thinking we got pregnant so easily with AJ (not trying) and that it might take a few months - but by 8 months I was calling my doctor, by 9 months I was on clomid, 11 months I had a trans vaginal u/s and found out I have PCOS and STILL haven't gotten my BFP. So nope - I haven't had the mellow-ness in over a year.

I hope you get your answers quickly and easily!

~Lynda~ · #3 May 18th, 2009, 02:21 PM

nope, no mellow for me!!!!

KDD · #4 May 18th, 2009, 03:17 PM

Nope, mellow is not a word that I would use to describe me! Maniacal maybe!

~*Jackie*~ · #5 May 18th, 2009, 06:23 PM

I have to agree with Kimberley! I haven't been calm about any of this for a LONG time...

MommaLee · #6 May 18th, 2009, 07:30 PM

Well....I guess I'm all alone in my sea of mellow-ness. I've just been so obsessed since about August of last year and the fact that I have no idea why we can't get pregnant is driving me crazy!

I'm just so glad we will *hopefully* get some answers.....I'm feeling really optimistic about this!

snsgirl336 · #7 May 18th, 2009, 08:07 PM

Yeah, the Mellow boat sailed a LONG LONG time ago for me. Even though I'm NTNP right now, I'm feeling a bit maniacal lately... it's just nutty!

LisaBrown · #8 May 19th, 2009, 04:20 AM

I try to take the pressure off myself sometimes, but usually I'm thinking about it again in a few days, so being mellow doesn't usually last long. I tried that for the first 6 months, but it quickly began making its way back into my head. I'm going to see my doc in a few minutes though, so I'm going to try to take it a little easier and start testing too...we'll see! I just find that I'm mellow in the begining of my cycles, but then after I wait 50+ days sometimes for AF, it's very difficult to relax! It's never just a 2ww for me, I feel like I'm ALWAYS waiting!