[Hopingfor1soon]

The last person you want to know about your BFP when you get it and why??


Mine is going to be a couple of friends of ours who are completely rubbing thier pregnancy in our face!! They know we have been trying and all they want to talk about around is there baby Brianna that is due in August! UGH!! Gag me now please! Its not nice to say but they cant even support themselves how are they ever going to take care of this baby!!!

[KDD]

Ours is a pseudo-friend of ours. They always "compete" with us and have also enjoyed talking about their uber-fertility! I don't want to hear about how "their" way is the "best" way.

Pretty much to what Alicia said!

[SavaAngel]

I am sure I wouldda thought my mom, but she has been bugging me about when we were going to have another one since AJ turned one! I might shout it from the roof tops when I am pregnant and take out an add in the Chronicle (not really, but that many people know we have been trying for 18 months).

But even though we won't keep it from anyone, all of my family in NY will be the last to know just cause I never talk to them and the way they will find out is a picture of AJ in his big brother shirt that they get in the mail.

[Soape]

I think we won't tell anyone till about 12 weeks this time. Except for ya'll of course

[Ash]

I want to keep it from everyone for a while. Maybe only telling our parents. Then let everyone else in at 10 or 12 weeks. Of course, I know me, and I know I won't be able to do that.

[MXmom]

My mother, hands down. She is so insensitive and rude. She brings up (EVERY time I talk to her) adoption, how she knows so and so that got pregnant after being infertile blah blah blah.... She has told everyone in the town I grew up in, feels it is appropriate to discuss our infertility with complete strangers right in front of our faces, and the latest... When I told her to stop asking about it, that MXdad and I are never going to have kids without the aid of IVF, and I told her why, MXdad's sperm. She had the audacity to tell me to just get a sperm donor.

I honestly hate her so bad right now, I never want her to know. And when she does inevitably find out, I want to move at least 1000 miles away so she can't butt into our lives every moment she deems worthy. I hate her attitude. All she cares about is being a grandma. She has no sensitivity to our pain and what we are going through and have gone through. If we never had kids there would be one positive about it and that would be to spite her. I hate her.

[~Lynda~]

there simply isn't anyone i won't want to know!!! but we too will wait 12 or more weeks because of our history!

The last person I want to know is my Grandmother. She loves us and wants to be happy and all, but she wants us to get jobs using our college degrees. Well, that might be a while in this economy!!

[MommaLee]

My work.....I know they will throw their hands up because someone will have to take over my projects until I come back from maternity leave.

I wanted to wait and tell people, but DH isn't going to be able to, so I will just let him do whatever he wants.

[snsgirl336]

I'm not sure there is anyone I would specifically want to know last... maybe my cousin??? She was supposed to be one of my Maids-of-honor in our wedding, but she went kinda loony before the wedding, and we haven't spoken in like 3 years.