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~Lynda~ · #1 June 25th, 2009, 07:34 AM

envy right now?

i have a friend who got pregnant very easily with her 5th child. I envy her right now!!! LOTS!!!

SavaAngel · #2 June 25th, 2009, 09:21 AM

Every one that is getting pregnant.

Someone on the NFP board got pregnant from a condom malfunction! Come on - I haven't used a condom since I started charting to avoid 3 years ago.

Soape · #3 June 25th, 2009, 11:29 AM

I envy a girl at work that was trying to make up with a boyfriend that had cheated on her and she accidently ended up pregnant. Now I have to see her getting bigger every day. She found out that she was pregnant 3 weeks before I miscarried the first time in Feb. I'm sooooo ready for her to have the baby because I start crying everytime I see her belly.

LisaBrown · #4 June 25th, 2009, 11:42 AM

I'm sorry Amanda...that sucks big time! The whole thing. I guess the bright side (in my mind it would be anyway...) is that she will be leaving for a year...right? You will be able to stop seeing her all the time.

I envy the 2 women in my class at the moment who are pregnant. One of them is expecting in August and the other is only 4 months, but they both look soooo great, radiant, happy and healthy...and I'm very jealous! They both look great, the kind of great you think you will never amount to when it's your turn because it's just tooo perfect! The perfect belly, glowing skin and hair, smiles permanantly embeded on their faces....sigh! I want that to be me! But at least they seem like great teachers, smart, loving women and moms-to-be, very nice and friendly, so I'm still happy for them both...it makes me HOPE I still have chance at the perfect pregnancy too someday. They are both also a bit older than I am, in their mid 30's about, and expecting their firsts, so they are super excited and happy. They just seem so happy I guess is what seems so appealing.

snsgirl336 · #5 June 25th, 2009, 07:25 PM

Every pregnant woman I see

And there are so many of them in DH's family right now, I get to see them all the time. Fun!

Soape · #6 June 25th, 2009, 09:52 PM

Lisa- No we only get 12 weeks of leave for having a baby here in the states. So she will only be gone for that long. I agree those pregnant women that make it look effortless and beautiful make me sick.

LisaBrown · #7 June 28th, 2009, 01:15 PM

Woah! We get a year (anyone who works and pays into EI gets it, it can even be divided between both parents which ever way is more convenient for the family)...and they're thinking of bumping it up to 18 months...easier for childcare purposes and such. 12 weeks is not a lot...