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June 25th, 2009, 06:11 PM
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Last night I experience the worst ever session of BD'ing! I told DH that if my first time had been like that, I'd never had bothered with sex again!

DH really wasn't into it and kept losing "focus" if you know what I mean.

TMI ~ right in the middle - he burst out laughing and couldn't stop! I pushed him off and told him "never mind".

Strangely enough, I'm not mad at him, or the situation. He did promise to "bring the sexy back" this weekend.
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June 25th, 2009, 07:38 PM
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I've def had my share of horrible sex during O time too!! It's just not the same when you're doing it because you HAVE to!
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June 25th, 2009, 07:39 PM
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Oh no! DH and I have had time where one of us gets the giggles and while we try to not let it ruin the mood, we usually are too distracted to continue.

I hope your DH "brings the sexy back" soon!!!
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June 25th, 2009, 09:48 PM
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Oh no!!!! I've had those too. I think every married person does sometimes. I'm hoping that you get some good lovin this weekend
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It has happened to us before - but it was me and DH different times. It is hardest for us when TTA - since we abstain during fertile times - BDing is a lot rougher when I am infertile.
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Kim, I literally laughed out loud when I read that...."bring the sexy back this weekend". Sorry you had a bad "encounter". I think we all have them. I hate it when DH isn't focused on the task at hand!
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June 27th, 2009, 12:23 PM
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you are not alone!!! we had one of those this past cycle too. that's why i'm not very positive about this cycle. it was kind of at critical timing!!! hope it gets better girl!! it's very hard to BD on a schedule!!
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June 27th, 2009, 04:32 PM
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Well we DTD last night and it was MUCH better. Now I have to try to convince him to BD again tonight!
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June 28th, 2009, 01:12 PM
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June 29th, 2009, 04:13 PM
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I find it hard to enjoy the BD'ing now that we are trying. It has taken some of the "fun" out of it. All I can think of they whole time is , this might be the time, I might be getting pregnant right now. I haven't share this with DH cuz he seems to be enjoying himself just the same and I don't want to ruin it for him.

Maybe it was a reaction from the pressure of it all?
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