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July 11th, 2009, 10:20 AM
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Okay, I know that I'm technically NTNP right now, but we still DTD right around O time this cycle, so there was a chance. The past few days my bbs have been wicked sore (more than usual for IPS). While I hate to get my hopes up, there's always a part of my that's full of hope.
Today I woke up and my bbs were no longer sore. Now, I'm starting to cramp. I'm sure that AF is on her way. I'm fast approaching the 3 year mark of TTC (since we first tossed the b/c).
Isn't getting pg and having babies what our bodies are designed to do? Can someone please explain that to my body?
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July 11th, 2009, 10:40 AM
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Oh Kim, I'm so sorry.... I can totally understand how you feel almost betrayed by your body. It is so frustrating! I have literally had conversations with my Ovaries and Uterus. DH laughs.
We were NTNP this past few cycles and it's still so hard! You try to convince yourself that it won't matter much cause you really "weren't trying", but it doesn't work. It's happened to me the 3 or 4 cycles we were NTNP.
No one should ever have to go through anything that we are all going through. It just shouldn't be this difficult! They say that adversity builds character.... well if that's true, we should all have character coming out of our ears!
Please know that I'm praying for you and hoping that you're just having some early pregnancy cramping. We're all here for you!!! 
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July 11th, 2009, 10:56 AM
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Thanks Cris  I'm sure I would have gone crazy long ago if I didn't have all of you here for support.
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July 11th, 2009, 12:13 PM
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Awww Kim, its def not fair is it  Im stalking you and always watching for when you get that BFP. Fingers crossed this is your cycle. When i got mine, i thought AF was coming so didnt even test for a week, because i had AF cramps...just like i had for the 2 years I was trying!!!
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July 11th, 2009, 01:17 PM
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Sometimes you start to wonder....why was I even on BCP!
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July 11th, 2009, 06:53 PM
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Kim I'm sooo sorry. It's not fair or right that we all should have to go through this.
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July 11th, 2009, 07:32 PM
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My fingers are crossed the cramps are NOT af cramps and your sore bbs mean af is on a 9 month vacation!! It does suck that our bodies don't seem to understand or cooperate with our best efforts!
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Originally Posted by Lee Ann
Sometimes you start to wonder....why was I even on BCP! |
I totally feel the same way!! I was sooo careful and why exactly?!?
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July 11th, 2009, 09:19 PM
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I am so sorry. I hate it when I know she is coming but she isn't here yet. It really effects you deep down anyways. Have you seen a doctor? Have you ever done clomid or something?
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July 12th, 2009, 03:22 AM
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I'm sorry Kim! I hate the TWW too and I'm just horrible at it...I hate those few days when it's ALL your mind will let you think about. And yes, I also wonder why my body doesn't want to work the way I want it to, but I try to stay hopeful that it will....someday. I'm sending you lots of and just know that you are not alone in this, we've all got your back! 
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July 12th, 2009, 08:21 AM
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*HUGS* I'm sorry AF is coming. Has she actually come yet?
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July 12th, 2009, 08:31 AM
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AF has not officially shown her face, but I see her coming up the sidewalk. I'm sure she'll be on my doorstep by tonight.
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July 12th, 2009, 10:28 AM
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AF showed up on my doorstep this am, ugggh Been off the pill since May 08, Finally made an appt to go talk to my doc august 11th. DH says "whatever happens, happens" where as I am ready to forge ahead & get this show on the road. Unfortunately this next cycle will surely be a bust because I am out of town pretty much the whole 6 prime days we should be BD'ing. Oh well I guess, just tack another month on to my long list ......
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July 12th, 2009, 11:32 AM
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I'm so sorry! We all know how frustrating it is! And I am the same way, even the cycles we have been NTNP, I obsess just as much!
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"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." - Galatians 6:9
TTC on our own for over 2 years
Dx with Severe MFI- Blood work shows no Microdeletion and no CF mutations
Ultrasound scheduled 3/22- DONE! Everything looks normal, other than some cysts on my right ovary.
HSG scheduled 4/14- DONE! Tubes are clear!! 
On BCP until our IVF w/ICSI scheduled for August!!! 
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July 12th, 2009, 06:27 PM
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I'm so sorry you are feeling all this right now. I was hoping the witch would leave you alone on one of your NT/NP cycles...
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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.
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July 13th, 2009, 08:05 AM
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heavy sigh!!!! i'm so sorry girl. we are all so frustrated here. how do we change that? how do we get excited again? how how how? again i'm sorry the witch showed!!!! HUGS
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