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August 4th, 2009, 01:42 PM
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Do any of you find it utterly depressing??? I swear, I think I am going to hide comments from all of my friends with who are pregnant or have new babies. I just can't take it. My heart totally breaks everytime I read an update from them. I know I am being a whiner, but ugh, ugh, ugh!!! Why do I feel like this is NEVER going to happen for DH and I.
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August 4th, 2009, 02:53 PM
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I know how you feel Ash! I have thought of hiding comments from all my pregnant/new Mommy friends too, but that would leave me with like 10 friends!

It really is depressing. Please whine away here! You're in good company. Dealing with ttc for so long and infertility has got to be among the hardest things people have to deal with in their lives and it's not fair!
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August 4th, 2009, 04:13 PM
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girls! and just so you know, the mall is not any better!! I think everybody I saw there today had a new baby. There was even one lady nursing. TTC is hard and I hope we are all done with it and holding/facebooking about our own babies soon!
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August 4th, 2009, 04:46 PM
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It WILL happen for us all. I completely understand how you feel though.
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August 4th, 2009, 08:08 PM
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Oh yeah!!! Facebook is SOOOOOOO depressing right now. It brings me to tears atleast twice a month.
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August 5th, 2009, 06:26 AM
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I posted about this same thing about a month ago! I had four friends on FB announce their pregnancies in a matter of a couple of months! So I know exactly how you feel! It can be very depressing!
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August 5th, 2009, 06:50 AM
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Hugs! I rarely write things on facebook....I was automatically signed up for it back in 2004 when I was in grad school. That is the only reason mine exists.
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August 5th, 2009, 08:29 AM
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It is sad. I just try to ignore all of the comments with pregnancy or new baby stuff in them if at all possible. I am also lucky if I get on there once a week.
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August 5th, 2009, 06:08 PM
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I did hide all updates from a few of my friends already.
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August 6th, 2009, 04:21 AM
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A few months back when I got the call that my beta was negative I was pretty down in the dumps, only to sign on to facebook and find out that THREE of my friends were pregnant! That was a crappy day. I hate it some days and other times it doesn't seem as bad.
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August 6th, 2009, 11:14 AM
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I'm sorry Ash - I agree, it is VERY difficult sometimes!
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