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March 11th, 2006, 05:26 PM
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is when you tell someone u are ttc,and what comes out of their mouth "stop trying it will happen when its time,or
Why do u need to try?" oh i am getting so aggrevated with it
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March 11th, 2006, 07:03 PM
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Location: ENGLAND
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Yep me too!
I think well advised friends are tryin to help.
Really they should butt out when they dont understand the situation,
But hey thats life huh?!
If i hear 'stop trying so hard' again, i will be up for murder 
Sarah 
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March 11th, 2006, 07:32 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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hahhaa at least i am not the only one who feels that way
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March 12th, 2006, 07:56 AM
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OMG that made me so mad!! I had to take clomid if I had just waited as they put it I would still be TTC. 14 months was long enough!!!!! I hope that you all get your BFP's soon!!!
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March 12th, 2006, 10:52 AM
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Location: Ontario Canada
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My biggest thing is the exact opposite. When we told people that we were first trying they'd say "what are you NUTS?!!" So I stopped telling people. I don't tell people anymore.
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March 12th, 2006, 10:01 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Benton, LA
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I know! I hate it when someone tells me, oh, when you stop trying, that's when it'll happen. Or, Just relax. Because clearly I can just push a little button on my hip and forget about the stress and the mental pain from not being able to conceive, and just relax!
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March 13th, 2006, 05:43 AM
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Location: Bealeton, VA
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I'm right there with you ladies. Everyone tells us to stop trying so hard. Easy for them that got pregnant right away or without even trying at all! GRRRRR!!!!!!
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Married to Tim for 5 years (together for 11!)
Mommy to Hailey Noelle - 2 years old
Jenna Marie scheduled to come March 25th via c-section!
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March 18th, 2006, 08:23 PM
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I know what you guys mean the one i hear the most and wanna shot the next person that says it bc i hear it from doctors too is your soo young you have time on your side dont rush it its just not time yet. ugg
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March 19th, 2006, 03:35 PM
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Location: Saskatchewan, Canada
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I'm right there with you....even my doctor says...."well, you just have to relax and keep your hopes up. you can't get too stressed out or worked up" OMG! I could choke him! Seriously, how can I not have stress in my life? And ya', if I had a switch on my back that could shut off the stress and anxiety ttc unsuccessfully can cause, then I would! Hello!!!
Anyway, they mean no offense by their comments. I'm just trying to quit talking about it but since I've been feeling depressed I seem to cry all the time so I've got my friends and family even more worried about me.
AHHHHGGGG!!!!
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March 20th, 2006, 03:31 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I know what you guys mean the one i hear the most and wanna shot the next person that says it bc i hear it from doctors too is your soo young you have time on your side dont rush it its just not time yet. ugg[/b]
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I get that one too. I'm 'young', but my DD is 2 and is only growing up faster! She needs a playmate!
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March 27th, 2006, 11:32 AM
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Location: Edmonton, Alberta
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I know! It is so frustrating when ppl say things like that. Especially if they have no idea how much it hurts! I have friends who say "owell, there's always next month"..or "it'll happen when the time is right" etc. I know they mean well, but it just makes me feel worse. Glad I'm not the only one this happens to.
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"Unexplained Fertilty"
6 Cycles of Clomid, 3-IUI/Clomid, 2-IUI/Gonal F
M/C October 2006
IVF #1 ~ 21 Eggs, 13 mature, all 13 fertilized, 2 put back, 4 frozen = BFN
FET ~ October 2008
August 14 ~ Started BCP
September 6 ~ Start Lupron 10 Units
September 19 ~ Baseline U/S & B/W
September 20 ~ Start Estrace, Lower Lupron to 5 Units
October 2 ~ US to check lining
October 6 ~ Start Prometrium
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March 28th, 2006, 09:09 PM
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I hate it when people tell you to stop trying. Ok, #1 if your trying to have a baby how do you stop trying?? Or why would you stop trying? People are so stupid and I truly don't think they think about other peoples feelings.
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March 29th, 2006, 01:10 PM
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Location: Montana
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Oh, these all get me FUMING!!! We didn't tell anyone because before we tried, his mom and sisters had responded to his "she can't have kids" with, "It'll happen when it happens." What part of my having medical problems did they not understand? When we *finally* told everyone about this pregnancy, we then got, "Are you sure you're ready?" Oh, you're right, we're not. Let's make the stork take it back.
These are the more tactful comments. I'm working hard to block out the others. 
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