[~Lynda~]

told me yesterday that he's growing very tired of scheduled BDing!!! oh no!!!! i told him to shut up and put out! how does your DH feel about it?

[MommaLee]

he tells me it stresses him out, so sometimes I don't tell him. With the IUI, there is nothing he or I can do about it. Ever since the IUI's though, I talk less about it and that helps because it is dh's break from it all.

[~*Jackie*~]

I don't know- he never complains, and we rarely have a hard time getting in some good BD'ing at the "right" times. This cycle we only did the every other day thing, and since we were skipping a day, we were BOTH really ready to go the following day so it worked out. Our situation is a little different, because he knows if he can get me pregnant, then I won't have endo pain when AF comes- because the witch wouldn't come! So that's further motivation because he hates seeing me in pain as much as I hate being in it!

[snsgirl336]

There are times that he gets frustrated with it but most of the time he doesn't complain. I think the worst times are when he's tired, but he usually pushes through it. I think he knows the end result will be well worth it.

[Ash]

Well, since we have been kind of taking the laid back approach, I haven't been telling him when I am ovulating. Then after O I will say, I think I O'd yesterday and he says, why didn't you tell me! LOL! He cracks me up!

[Soape]

It makes it hard about the 3-4th day in a row for him to stay motivated. LIke I said last cycle something stressful or sickness always seems to curse us right at O time. We have always pushed through it though. It just makes me sad that it can't happen on spontaeous sex alone!!

[SavaAngel]

He complained a bit this cycle cause he was sick but usually he is happy to BD whenever. He does begin complaining a little when we have DTD for days in a row.

[Brandielou]

He doesn't really like the scheduling thing. He wants it to just happen but after months and months of doing that, he got frustrated. Now that I tell him when we need to, he gets frustrated. Now I'm getting frustrated, but he is the one who has baby fever so we're just hanging in there.

[KDD]

He keeps telling me to let him know when the time comes when we need to BD. Although sometimes it does get tedious.

[jensma]

Yeah my DH doesn't complain for all of the above reasons. I used to not tell him when I was O'ing but he seems to be more cooperative and interested since the m/c. I'm not complaining!! Its easy to just tell him we have a date tonight, plus it somehow takes some of the pressure off of me.

[Kari_B]

He is pretty good about it. Sometimes I think it sucks though. Personally, for me it's hard for me to get in the mood when I'm not TTC. I just have very low libido. I think he'd rather do more BD but I just don't get into it.

I'm weird.