well I have bad news

Blue Eyes 409 · #1 March 18th, 2006, 01:06 PM

I just wanted to share with you all that JR and I have decided to seperate. I kicked him out yesterday and am looking into filing for a divorce. I have been having a really hard time with it this weekend but I know in my heart that I am doing the right thing. I posted in on my DDC yesterday but I also wanted to share with you if I am not on as much I will be out looking for a part time job to help cover the bills.

I love you all and you all mean so much to me.

rollopodio · #2 March 18th, 2006, 02:21 PM

Oh sandy!!! i'm so sorry!!! if there is anything i can do let me know. ((HUGS))

babypaid · #3 March 18th, 2006, 02:28 PM

oh hunny!!! I am so sry to hear this. I hope that you are ok. please im me if you need anything.

Misty

Blue Eyes 409 · #4 March 18th, 2006, 02:28 PM

Thanks Rebecca this is the hardest thing that I have ever had to do. Every time that I start to cry baby Paige goes to kicking up a storm and it has really made me feel better it is like she is trying to make me to feel better.

ravensunset1980 · #5 March 18th, 2006, 03:53 PM

Oh, Sandy ((hugs)) we're all here for you if you need anything. Luv ya

DreamChaser · #6 March 18th, 2006, 04:14 PM

I am sorry Sandy - you're are in my thoughts and prayers.

KrissyJ · #7 March 18th, 2006, 04:57 PM

Im so sorry hun! Im happy you had the strength to make the right decision for you and your family. I hope everything works out for you and everyone is here to help so dont be afraid to let us know if your feeling upset and you need someone to listen! Just dont cry or Paige will kick you lol.

Blue Eyes 409 · #8 March 18th, 2006, 05:01 PM

Thanks everyone

I don't know what I would do without all of you!

instant_oatmeal · #9 March 18th, 2006, 06:55 PM

Oh Sandy, I'm sorry. I'm sure you made the right decision for you and your daughters. Best of luck.

#10 March 18th, 2006, 06:57 PM

Gosh, Sandy. I had no clue. I am so sorry especially at this time. I thought JR valued what he had. You are such a nice person, I clearly don't understand. Men!

I know that I have been absent lately, but give me a call if you need to talk or just need comfort. I am pretty much doing nothing all day long except napping.

proudjmmom · #11 March 18th, 2006, 08:28 PM

GOsh i am so sorry to hear that. you and the girls will be in my thought and prayers!

Katlynsmommy · #12 March 19th, 2006, 11:12 AM

Sandy my darlin i am so sorry all this is going on with you,you know how to reach me if u want to talk some more ok.
Hugs

Phoenix Rising · #13 March 19th, 2006, 02:07 PM

Oh I am so sorry to hear that things are going badly for you... I even had to come out of lurking to give you a big ole hug.

Blue Eyes 409 · #14 March 19th, 2006, 02:10 PM

Thanks you all mean so much to me! I don't know what I would do without you!

I know I can do this and I am feeling so much better today I have done the single mom thing before and I KNOW that I can do it now!

Lisa P. · #15 March 19th, 2006, 02:26 PM

oh no....i'm so sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time, sandy.
you are in my thoughts, hun. please take care of yourself and your girls.

celestialblue · #16 March 19th, 2006, 03:27 PM

I'm really sorry to hear about this, but if it's whats best for your family, then hopefully it won't be too hard on you! *hugs*

groovie · #17 March 19th, 2006, 04:55 PM

Im so sorry to hear this. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. We're all here if you need us.

rinty68 · #18 March 19th, 2006, 07:35 PM

Sandy i am so sorry to hear that.
You are brave making that decision to kick him out though.
Life is too short, If you are unhappy you have done the right thing.
I made that hard choice with my Ex DB.
I am glad i did. We are still amicable but i am very happy with current DB
after thinking i would never love anyone again.

Good luck to you and your family.

Sarah