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December 14th, 2009, 08:20 AM
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2 years ago from today was the first day of our first cycle that we were actually trying to conceive. I've learned a lot and have made a lot of friends, but I haven't gotten anywhere in my journey.

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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.

March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.



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December 14th, 2009, 09:05 AM
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I'm sorry Jackie. I'ts two weeks until my 1 year mark. I know that doesn't really compare at all, but I feel like in a blink of an eye I'll be approaching the 2 year with no more luck either. I'm with you.
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December 14th, 2009, 09:14 AM
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hugs to you girl!!!! i'm coming up on my two year mark too!!! sniff sniff!!! i don't know the actual date, but it's in January! hugs to the both of us!!!
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December 14th, 2009, 09:46 AM
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HUGS back atcha.

Ana- believe it or not, the 1 year mark was more painful than the 2 year mark is..... I think after an amount of time, it becomes more numbing than painful.
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.

March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.



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December 14th, 2009, 12:41 PM
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on that one sister!
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December 14th, 2009, 12:50 PM
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Jackie! I am 4 weeks out from my two year mark, and I simply cannot believe it. Here's to hoping 2010 brings something very special for us both!!
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December 14th, 2009, 01:17 PM
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I hope so, Ash! Truly hope so. I'm getting my pre-AF headache and craving sweets. I just KNOW the witch will be on time Friday morning. GRRR!!
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.

March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.



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December 14th, 2009, 03:28 PM
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I am so sorry Jackie - I am only a month away from our 2 year date and I just want to cry. Big HUGS to you!
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December 14th, 2009, 05:34 PM
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Thanks, Christina! HUGS to you, too. We've all been here ENTIRELY too long.
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.

March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.



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December 14th, 2009, 06:07 PM
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Yep... that two year mark just sucked! It was a rough one and I'm so sorry that you have to go through it too (or any of you for that matter)! I'm just hoping and praying that IVF will bring you that MUCH deserved and LONG AWAITED
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December 14th, 2009, 06:58 PM
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I love you all but I hope that none of us are left on this board by the time the 3 year mark comes around.
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December 14th, 2009, 07:04 PM
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to you, Kari....

Kim- I couldn't agree more!!!!
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.

March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.



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December 14th, 2009, 07:49 PM
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just tons of ((hugs)) to all of you.. I think of all of you daily..
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December 14th, 2009, 08:44 PM
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*HUGS!* I know the one year mark (in sept) was hard for us, I can't imagine 2 yet.... Huge hugs for you guys!
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After years of trying, 2 years of fertility meds, multiple surgeries, blood draws and needle sticks, some awful pre-IVF complications, and endometriosis and PCOS,
We are done TTC. Praying for peace as we accept this...
Hoping for some comfort after our most recent (and 3rd) surgery and starting Lupron!






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December 15th, 2009, 07:32 AM
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I thought I had been doing ok yesterday, but when the words came out of my mouth last night to DH that it's been 2 years (and he reacted like "no way- holy cow- time is going TOO FAST), I got sucked big time into a funk. I just bawled at bedtime, telling DH how I wish I didn't know what an actual heartache felt like.... and just cried myself to sleep. He held me- not much more than that he can do. I just don't know what's going to happen here in the next few weeks.
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.

March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.



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December 15th, 2009, 09:03 AM
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we all have so much in common!!!!! maybe just maybe God will hear our prayers!!!
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December 20th, 2009, 05:33 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. I cried about it myself today (we'll hit 3 years of trying Mother's Day 2010). I was hoping my youngest and the baby we are trying for would only be 2 1/2 years apart but she turned 4 this fall. It's hard when time keeps ticking by but it's worth the end result, so hang in there!
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December 21st, 2009, 11:29 PM
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sending you hugs Jackie
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December 22nd, 2009, 03:03 PM
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Curly - I am right there with you. I wanted my kiddo's closer in age, but AJ will be 4 in August (as will Lindsey's little one).
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