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~Lynda~ · #1 December 30th, 2009, 07:32 AM

not getting a bfp, what part of ttc do you hate the most?

♥Ashley♥ · #2 December 30th, 2009, 08:04 AM

I was actually JUST thinking about how I hate the fact that were only 23 and were newlyweds and having sex isnt the same as someone who isnt ttc or any other 23 year old. Its not always spontaneous and carefree...its sometimes planned and for one purpose. Which makes me really sad, and I want to change that. Dont get me wrong we do still have those steamy hot spur of the moment times but alot of the time its not.

~*Jackie*~ · #3 December 30th, 2009, 08:46 AM

I hate putting my life on hold. I feel like no matter what I do, think about, look at online, etc., revolves around ttc and I'm tired of it!

KDD · #4 December 30th, 2009, 07:27 PM

The pre-planned sex.

Kari_B · #5 December 31st, 2009, 07:19 AM

The financial burden and then way it has changed our sex life.

LindseyMarie · #6 January 1st, 2010, 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by ♥Ashley♥

I was actually JUST thinking about how I hate the fact that were only 23 and were newlyweds and having sex isnt the same as someone who isnt ttc or any other 23 year old. Its not always spontaneous and carefree...its sometimes planned and for one purpose. Which makes me really sad, and I want to change that. Dont get me wrong we do still have those steamy hot spur of the moment times but alot of the time its not.

This is my exact gripe. You took the words off of my fingers.

I know exactly what you mean.

Brandielou · #7 January 1st, 2010, 05:56 PM

#1 would have to be worrying when I'm going to O, if we time BD correctly and if my LP will be long enough. #2 would have to be that STUPID thermometer by my bed. I look at it EVERYDAY and I am a hard sleeper so I'm not good at remembering to take my temp, then when I forget I kick myself and keep going over and over in my head to remind myself, then I'll end up forgetting and I'll be upset with myself all over again....and that is even before I get out of bed!

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Originally Posted by ♥Ashley♥

I was actually JUST thinking about how I hate the fact that were only 23 and were newlyweds and having sex isnt the same as someone who isnt ttc or any other 23 year old.

I'm 23 as well (even though DH is 27) and you said this SOOOO perfectly and I am so glad you said it because I feel too young to be having issues with our sex life. I keep asking myself, "Is it suppose to be like this?"