[Phoenix Rising]

I am having a hard time going over there right now because of all the BFP's - while I am happy for them, its making me depressed.

Anyone else going through this?

[Blue Eyes 409]

I knwo there have been a lot of them the past few days. I hope the trend keeps on going and you all get your BFP's soon!

[Lisa P.]

I am happy for the BFPs!
I have a hard time KEEPING UP with the TTC board!
Wow! What a chatty group!

[DreamChaser]

Raises hand - yeah I am there - unfortunately I have been in this situation lots of times - it always seems there is a burst of BFP's just when the hag comes to see me - the fact I get to start my clomid this cycle gives me hope (praying that it works in that at least makes my cycle shorter - if not a BFP). So I know how you feel completely!!!! I am happy for those with their BFP's, but it also makes me sad - particularly since I am approaching the one year mark of trying.

[ravensunset1980]

me too. although I am very happy and thrilled for everyone, I'm sad for myself and others still waiting for their turn.

[Daniellea22]

Raises hand - yeah I am there - unfortunately I have been in this situation lots of times - it always seems there is a burst of BFP's just when the hag comes to see me - the fact I get to start my clomid this cycle gives me hope (praying that it works in that at least makes my cycle shorter - if not a BFP). So I know how you feel completely!!!! I am happy for those with their BFP's, but it also makes me sad - particularly since I am approaching the one year mark of trying.[/b]

exact same way i feel. i host the ttc after a loss board and i get SO happy for those girls, really i do. But i still pity myself each month when af comes. I got pregnant last year..the first day of my cycle was may 12th and with that coming up..im sore about it

[bransrock]

I am totally with you. I love to hear that others are getting their BFP's but at the same time part of me is pretty sad. I know that it is their time but I really want some time too. My dh says that it will happen when it is intended, yeah coming from a man I would expect that. It is super hard to not get stressed out and we have decided that we are going to chill out and let it roll a couple of months. Good lick to you ladies!!!!!!!!

Well Ladies, I just got a BFP last night.

I thought it would never happen. Day after day someone else would be pregnant and I would be sitting there like...when will I?!?!

Me and DH were pregnant with twin boys almost 3 years ago and we lost them. We have been trying for 2 years and we finally conceived. It wasn't easy. I went through the first year continuosly bleeding, periods that didn't come for months, doctor after doctor and more emotional pain then you could imagine. It felt like punishment or something. So I completely understand where you are coming from.

But you have to rememer that some of these people have been waiting all their lives for these BFP's. And though it is hard to sit back and listen to all the "I took the test" and "I can't beleive it" comments. Please remember that YOUR TIME WILL COME!

You can never give up and never lose hope. If I can do it after 2 years, so can everyone else.

All my love...

Sylvia

You are exactly right, Sylvia. Although it is hard for me to read about all of the BFP's, I need to realize that some of these people have waited forever for that positive test. It is hard to do that though because I tend to pity myself and say, "Why them and not me?". Your words brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for the encouragement and good luck to you!!!
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You are exactly right, Sylvia. Although it is hard for me to read about all of the BFP's, I need to realize that some of these people have waited forever for that positive test. It is hard to do that though because I tend to pity myself and say, "Why them and not me?". Your words brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for the encouragement and good luck to you!!!

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AWWWW I didn't mean to make you cry!!!!

And trust me, I know how you feel. Two years of everyone else getting pregnant, you know. I just wanted you to know that sometimes you will want to give up and sometimes you will think it's hopeless. But cheer up! You will get your baby when you are ready for it

I wish you all the luck in the world!

[Lisa P.]

Well Ladies, I just got a BFP last night.

I thought it would never happen. Day after day someone else would be pregnant and I would be sitting there like...when will I?!?!

Me and DH were pregnant with twin boys almost 3 years ago and we lost them. We have been trying for 2 years and we finally conceived. It wasn't easy. I went through the first year continuosly bleeding, periods that didn't come for months, doctor after doctor and more emotional pain then you could imagine. It felt like punishment or something. So I completely understand where you are coming from.

But you have to rememer that some of these people have been waiting all their lives for these BFP's. And though it is hard to sit back and listen to all the "I took the test" and "I can't beleive it" comments. Please remember that YOUR TIME WILL COME!

You can never give up and never lose hope. If I can do it after 2 years, so can everyone else.

All my love...

Sylvia[/b]

Well said. Thanks for putting things into perspective for me.
God bless you and your little bean, Sylvia.