[~Lynda~]

your DH really feels about TTC and not being successful?

[~*Jackie*~]

He's upset, but more because we have to go through so much now to get there. He feels awful that I deal with my endo pain each month, and if it were up to him, I'd be back on BCP and we'd be living our lives without children. He'd rather see me in NO more physical pain and have no kids, than see me in the pain I am in "trying" to have children..

[SavaAngel]

I know he thinks it stinks. We talk about it a lot.

[Kari_B]

He really thinks it sucks... but he is so happy (As am I!) that we are moving forward with adoption. A HUGE weight has been lifted from the both of us and our relationship has never been better!

[KDD]

He's disappointed each month. He's way more ready to move onto IVF than I am!

[ProjectMama]

DH is very ready to be a dad. I think the hardest part for him though is knowing that it is hard on me.

[Laurenj915]

When I tell him that "I'm not pregnant" each month he always just says "ok" and then waits for me to cry and holds me. He doesn't say much other than "we will keep trying." So although he's there and comforting me I feel like I am the only one who is upset.

Then I go online and see that he has been looking up male infertility, that he threw away his splenda for coffee, and that there is a yoga DVD in the player when I get home from work. I think he just deals with things so differently than me. He takes whatever action he thinks needs to be done to resolve a problem. Strong silent type and all that.

Btw... Hi, I'm Lauren, I am starting cycle 8 today.

[missy123]

Hi Lauren and Welcome. I hope you get your BFP soon.