[BuckeyeGal23]

So I just found out one of my good friends is preggers...and while I am happy for her, I can't help but be super jealous! I am frustrated because all she did was go of bc and then NTNP and BAM she's prego, while we've been trying for MONTHS and can't do it. It makes me feel like a total failure. I am so bummed, even though I should be super happy for her...and I am, it's just hard to ignore my issues and be unselfishly happy...how do you all deal with depressing moments like this?

[KDD]

Isn't that frustrating!? One of my closest friends has 3 kids that she conceived on her first try! She's never had to learn about her cycle, learn how to chart, buy an OPK, nothing!

[BuckeyeGal23]

I know!! I get so frustrated sometimes. How is it sooo EASY for some women, and then we're the ones stuck with issues? I mean, I am super happy for her and I am so glad she doesn't have to go through what I have been going through but it doesn't make me any less jealous!!

[SavaAngel]

It is frustrating. And I was that person with my son - went off BC, didn't chart and walla. I am making up for it now I guess.

[~Lynda~]

hugs girl!! i've been through that and now my friend has her baby and he is so beautiful, it makes me even more jealous!!! does your friend know you're ttc?

[BuckeyeGal23]

Yes, she knows and is very supportive. I don't want sympathy though, I want a baby! Oh well though, I know our time will come!