[tink41503]

I have alot of people telling me to not worry about getting pregnant and that it will happen when it happens, but i have PCOS and it never goes away. Everyone also tells me that it's in gods hands, which i know it is, but rather i go through everything now or 15 years down the road i still have PCOS and dont have a period. Is there really a such thing as trying to hard just because i am going to the doctor for all this? I have been through 8 months of clomid and on the 12th of next month i have a Laparoscopy scheduled. I don't know if they think i am just trying to scam out of work to go to appointments often are they just don't understand but it doesnt make my situation any easier.



Plus, I am 20 yrs old and have been married for a year and half and i have been told numerous times that i am to young and i need to give my body time to straighten out. PCOS never goes away right? So, do ya'll think i should really just not do anything and let me body do it all?

[Can't Wait]

I have been told i am trying hard by several people also. I have been TTC #1 since July of 03. I have done all the charting, temping & opk's for the last 2 years. I have also been seeing an RE for over a year now. We have tried Clomid for I believe 8 cycles total with no success. We have also done 3 cycles on injectibles & IUI with no success. DH & I have both been thru all the tests & everything comes back fine, so lucky us have been diagnosed with unexplained infertility problems. So i personally think these people that keep telling us to stop trying so hard have NO IDEA what they are talking about or what we are going thru. Most of the people that have said this to me have had no problems getting pregnant & have no idea how we feel.

Hang in there!!! We will have out time too.

[Blue Eyes 409]

People who say that you are trying to hard have never had a problem getting Pregnant!!!! TTC is one of the hardest things that I have ever done! There is a lot of stress with TTC and I have heard a lot of people say that when they quit trying is when they got pregnant but when you have wanted one for so long and have been trying so long it is so hard to quit trying.

I am so sorry that you have been having a hard time getting pregnant I really don't know a lot about PCOS but I knwo you can get pregnant with it but it is alittle harder. I hope that you get your BFP soon.

I so feel your pain. The whole situation is just unbearable sometimes.....ESPECIALLY when there are so many pregnant friends around you. I went to a baby shower today and it was very hard. I did fine up until the baby gifts started and there where times that I teared up!!! I don't believe that we can ever try too hard at getting pregnant. It probably would help to not stress over TTC so much but you and everyone who goes through this knows that it is impossible not to be deeply affected by infertility issues!!! It is impossible not to be stressed!!! I have heard this phrase A MILLION TIMES..... "Try not to stress too much about it. It will happen." Sometimes I feel like people are just saying it because they don't know what else to say. Hang in there and Baby dust to you all!!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!

[EAB1218]

Hello, Just wanted to say I kinda know how you feel. I'm sorta in the same boat as you. I'm 23 and I've been married a year and half too, Although I do not have PCOS I do have extremely long periods and fertility problems, I've had like 2 or 3 periods in 8 months. We are now thinking about getting preg. I think that it's great you are going ahead to the dr. to find out what's going on with your body. I'm doing the same, I just wanna know what's going on with my body then I'll figure out what I need to do. I do not think you are too young if you and your DH are ready. If you really want a baby, I'd go through with all the appointments to find out what you need to do to get preg. If you are like me I wanna get preg. so I'll do what I need to, to get my body jumpstarted! Good Luck with everything. If you need to talk you can PM me!
~Elizabeth~