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April 28th, 2010, 06:21 AM
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Hi gals, I have gone through my 4th miscarriage. wow it seems so odd to write that! anyway, i don't think i'd be feeling so good, but i had a great talk with my dr's. i feel confident that we will be pregnant in the next 6 months with a sticky bean! DH and I decided we are going to be aggressive cause we are sick of waiting.

The bad news is they are making me wait till my next period to do the cycle day 3 bloodwork and the HSG. I was so bummed to find that I had to wait a cycle. but i understand the body needs time to heal and we want accurate information with these tests. still hard to wait. i haven't gotten pregnant in 8 months and WAM. the cycle before I was to do these tests and get some information, I get pregnant and now I have to wait. timing, seems cruel! In the mean time, I am signed up for a seminar on IVF so I have it completed, just in case that is the route we go.

The good news is, yes, I can get pregnant! but what good is that if I can't stay pregnant. DH is going to get his SA done soon. They keep telling me he could be the problem. I'm hoping it's me, cause i think I can be more easily fixed! I hope!

We will be preventing this cycle, cause I don't want to wait any longer to move forward. So i'm back here with you all, fighting for my future sticky bfp! I feel like you gals are my true sisters and i've missed you!!! Thought about you alot when I was gone. Wishes for all of us!!!! and big big hugs!!!

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April 28th, 2010, 08:38 AM
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I'm so so sorry for your loss. I'm glad to see your positive outlook, though, and I look forward to celebrating your sticky bean with you.

I think more of us here are preventing than trying! It really does stink.
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IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
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April 28th, 2010, 09:01 AM
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hugs jackie, you are so right, it stinks! so what will we do to pass the time?
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April 28th, 2010, 09:11 AM
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I already responded over in TTCMA but im glad your back, and glad your moving forward!!
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)
Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN
Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN
Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN
Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN
Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's
Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW




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April 28th, 2010, 09:23 AM
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*hugs* I'm so sorry you've had another loss. Don't forget about us over on RPL. We miss you.

We're not doing any MA this month either (just tests) as by the time I have my appointment it'll be too late for MA.
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April 28th, 2010, 06:02 PM
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I'm so sorry about your loss Lynda. I know that timing while ttc always seems to suck no matter how good our plan is! I'm glad you have a positive outlook though, it seems like that has been the hardest thing for me to hold on to, maybe some of your positive vibes will rub off on me!!
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April 29th, 2010, 06:27 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss girl! I hope this cycle passes quickly and you can start getting some answers! I am praying you get your sticky bean very soon!
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April 30th, 2010, 05:56 AM
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thanks gals, you are all the best!
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April 30th, 2010, 07:57 AM
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Welcome back Lynda! I'm so sorry about your loss though I admire your positivity and strength! I really hope that moving forward and being aggressive will be just what you need for that sticky sticky bean!
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