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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 7,264
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you and your DH/SO had a serious conversation about your ttc journey? (not like a 5 min one)
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: The Land of Infertility
Posts: 16,090
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Probably the week before my beta during my IVF cycle.... so a couple months now. We knew we weren't pregnant, and we had to seriously decide whether or not we could keep trying naturally or if the pill was the answer for my endo. Still not sure yet, but we had to make a decision. At the same time, we had to discuss when we would give a frozen embie transfer a try, as I have to get off of the pill 2 months before we start that cycle...
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Thank you brie_91 for this fabulous siggy!!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: St. Louis, MO
Posts: 14,102
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It was at the end of our IUI cycle. I was absolutely devastated and thought (still kind of do) its never going to happen for us. I wanted to sit him down and actually talk about everything, and what we would do if it came down to the really expensive stuff... that was a little over a month ago.
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Cycle #1-9 - All Natural....5BFN's, 4BFP's (all ended in miscarriage)  Cycle #10-11 - Met with first RE, diagnosed with heterzygeous MTHFR mutation & slightly low SA on all counts. -BFN, Cycle #12 - First IUI+Trigger - BFN, Cycle #13 - BFN Cycle #14-15 - Met with new RE, diagnosed with a blocked right tube that previous RE completely overlooked or didnt care to mention. Soy (120mg) - BFN Cycle #16 - Clomid (100mg) - BFN, Cycle #17 - Clomid (100mg)+Trigger+IUI - BFN Cycle #18 - Acupuncture+Clomid (100mg) - BFN Cycle #19-27 - 2 Soy (160mg) cycles, the rest all natural also 30lbs lost!! - BFN's Cycle #28 - New RE is GREAT! Put on bcp 7/6/11, Lap surgery 8/1/11- Tubal cyst (5cm) found and removed, Uterine Septum removed, and Stage II-III endo removed. Cycle #29 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle #30 - All Natural - BFN, Cycle#31 - All Natural - BFN, DONE TTC FOR NOW
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Lafayette, California
Posts: 10,512
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Last week. Although it wasn't much more than 5 minutes. They always consist of me expressing my concerns and DH saying something to make me feel better.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Virginia
Posts: 2,678
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Ummm...prolly when we found out about DH's bad spermies was when we had a long convo about it. We talk about it all the time though....
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Regular
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Small Town, Saskatchewan, Canada
Posts: 54
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Well. . . I am an obsessive worrier so I seem to be discussing it all the time. DH and I had a talk on Monday when I decided to go to the doctor to ask for some testing and also wanted to discuss ordering more OPKs. He seems okay with everything as long as I am ok with it so far.
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Professionally Awesome
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Aurora, Colorado
Posts: 11,659
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Last week when we sent off the papers for follistim. We had to figure out things like how many follicles WE feel comfy trigger on, what if this doesnt work, what about IUI's, what if we end up like Kate Gosselin, things like that. 
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: Granada, Spain
Posts: 5,345
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We took 9 months ttc Ana, so we more or less expect that this one will take a similar time. We have talked about what we will do after the 9 months are up, but not for a while.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Upstate NY
Posts: 13,546
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We haven't had a serious-serious conversation about ttc since February or March and the only reason is we're waiting on starting MA again. We had decided on our next plan in December after the m/c and talking with my Dr so we know what we're going to do as soon as the insurance starts. We decided that if we couldn't do much medically about ttc right now, we might as well not beat ourselves up with talking about it and just get back to enjoying each other. I image though, that in the next few weeks we'll be having a good talk as we apprach our next IUI.
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