[wishfulgal]

I'm on CD 16 with no positive OPK yet and we are supposed to leave in 2 days to go visit my family for Memorial Day weekend. I really was hoping to O before we left so we could just relax and not worry about having to drag all of our TTC parephanelia across the state to my parent's house (we use preseed and instead cups). Seriously, it always works out that my family is visiting us or we are visiting them during O time!
I haven't O'd any earlier than CD 19 since my son was born, and that was with the help of soy isoflavones. Oing late stinks. I wish I had a normal body and that I could just sleep with my husband and get pregnant without even thinking about it. like all of my friends. I might even have to stay home from taking our son to the county fair back home in July b/c I'll be Oing (or around O time and I never know for sure when it is going to happen anymore) and DH isn't going to be able to come with . And the sad thing is, I'll stay home and I'm sure I won't even get pregnant, but it's not like we can afford to miss a chance at this point.

I'm sorry for the vent. I know I haven't been trying nearly as long as some of you, but I'm sure we can all relate to feeling like TTC is running our lives.

[Hopingfor1soon]

I know exactly what you mean by TTC running your lives! I so hope you get a positive OPK tomorrow and then a BFP so you don't have to worry about it!

[samspain]

DH has been working away 1 week a month for the past 5 months, the week changes month to month, but it was always the key week he was away!! Now he has changed jobs and we have moved, of course he had to be away a month to organise paperwork and a rented house etc (its out of state) and I just felt like everything was against us. And everyone else gets pg the first time they think about it!

[snsgirl336]

Ugh- I've been in my fair share of "bad timing" situations. I hope that you O soon... don't count yourself out yet though- I remember a girl on ttc #1 who only BD'd once 4 days before she O'd and got pregnant. You never know!