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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 7,264
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has to do his SA tomorrow morning.... yikes!! how did you feel when your DH/SO had to do one, if he did? I feel a bit weird - LOL
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: St. Louis, MO
Posts: 14,102
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Honestly...I felt so bad for him!  It was like we have to do this stupid thing that most people dont have to go through just to have a baby. I felt bad for him, because I know he was embarassed!
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Posts: 3,600
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I'll let you know when DH does his in about a week or so or whenever we get around to it!
Actually I'm mostly nervous about getting the sample to the hospital on time b/c we live about 30 minutes from the hospital. They said we need to have it there within an hour, but the sooner the better. I'm picturing myself getting pulled over trying to rush the sample in and trying to explain to the police officer that I really HAVE to go....
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Virginia
Posts: 2,678
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I didn't feel bad for my DH at all. He was really embarassed but I just explained to him that he got to do his business in private while I have to have ultrasounds out the wazo!
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Mama to AJ & Katie
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: League City, Texas
Posts: 32,333
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It was just one of those things we had to do to get some answers. I think he was nervous our infertility was his fault. I actually went with DH.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: The Land of Infertility
Posts: 16,090
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I felt bad for DH with the first one, too. We got to do that one at home and then speed to the hospital to get it to the lab while I was keeping it "warm".  The billions of other s/a's he's had done with our RE had to be done at the office- where he had a private room with a tv, dvds, and magazines.  It's hard to feel bad about that.
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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.

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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 7,264
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yep girls, my DH was so embarrassed this morning, but he was a true trooper. it's done!!! yay, now just waiting on the results. do you ever wonder if they are so nervous/embarrassed that they won't be able to do it? hahahhah i was so thinking that this morning. i'm just so glad that is over with!!!
i should start a journal to let this baby know what we went through to have her/him
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Proud Car Seat Technician
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Posts: 18,657
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Quote:
Originally Posted by wishfulgal
I'll let you know when DH does his in about a week or so or whenever we get around to it!
Actually I'm mostly nervous about getting the sample to the hospital on time b/c we live about 30 minutes from the hospital. They said we need to have it there within an hour, but the sooner the better. I'm picturing myself getting pulled over trying to rush the sample in and trying to explain to the police officer that I really HAVE to go.... 
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That was us. DH ended up using a bathroom stall at the hospital (which is about halfway between here and the lab).
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 7,264
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omg augie that is so funny. i think my dh would have freaked out if he had to do it in a public bathroom. LOL
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Proud Car Seat Technician
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Posts: 18,657
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 Lynda. It was HIS idea. He would've had time to make it to the lab within the hour...he just wanted it there faster!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Upstate NY
Posts: 13,546
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I'm glad your DH did well Lynda! LOL....
I think I my DH was slightly embarassed about doing his SA. He got to do it at home and when he did it, he locked me out of the room and I waited in the car with the engine running. He ran out the door and told me to floor it. LMAO... It felt like some weird "deposit and run" crime and I was the getaway driver.
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