Hello ! IM new but not really new to TTC

beachmomma · #1 July 13th, 2010, 11:31 AM

I lurk here and never wanted to join but emotionaly i think i need to face the fact that after 9 cycles im still not pregnant. Well kinda...I got a BFP in may and then lost it in june. I never thought trying for our 4th would take so long. Im to the point now where if it doesnt happen anytime soon i just want to give up. Im a debbie downer about it these days incase you couldnt tell lol. Anyways im christi 30 and the hubs is 25.We have had every test possible and the docs say we are fine and it will happen. I begged fo clomid but my doc doesnt think i need it. Im not getting any younger and would like to have our next before my oldest is in high school.Anyways im now joining you lovely ladies and i look forward to getting to know you all but i hope none of us have to wait for a BFP for too long.

snsgirl336 · #2 July 13th, 2010, 07:05 PM

Welcome Christi, I'm so sorry that you've had to join us, but please know that there are a lot of great girls here who can offer you a ton of support!

I have been ttc our first baby for 3 years now with unexplained infertility, so I know your frustration. I think if I had a solid reason or explanation as to why I can't get pregnant (well I got pregnant in Dec, but m/c) it would help, but it's that mystery factor that stinks!

I hope you don't have to stick around here long and can graduate with a beautiful BFP!!!

~Lynda~ · #3 July 13th, 2010, 08:27 PM

Hi Christi and welcome! I know how frustrating it is when dr's keep telling you "relax, and it will happen..." Dr's told me that too and 4 miscarriages later, they are singing a different tune! They can't find anything wrong with us too, other than DH has some lazy swimmers. But i've gotten pregnant, I just can't stay pregnant. I sure hope it happens for all of us here soon!!! I'm doing my first round of IVF after my next AF comes. I wish you great success with ttc #4!!! I hope we get to share in your bfp with you!!! hugs and welcome again. I look forward to getting to know you better!

~*Jackie*~ · #4 July 14th, 2010, 12:07 PM

Welcome and good luck!

SKGirl · #5 July 14th, 2010, 04:41 PM

Welcome! I hope you get your BFP soon.

kristy1234 · #6 July 18th, 2010, 11:01 AM

Hi Christi,

I'm new to this site as well. I've been reading posts for months, but always told myself I'd join next month if I didn't get my BFP.... well.... here I am! Joined this morning! Hopefully we see some happy BFP's soon! I'm so excited to be a mom one day!!!