[prettybabiz94]

My hubby and I have been TTC for about 7 months now, and it's just not happening. I went through some stages; confusion, denial, depression, and then just giving up (but not really). I kept reading everywhere that you have to have fun and not think about it. Everyone around me has been getting pregnant and having kids and getting pregnant again. And for me, it's just not happening. I don't get it. I thought I was the only one out there (although I kept reading posts and blogs with others having the same problem) but those people were a bit dry for me. I just couldn't relate to them. I wanted to share with others out there TTC who think they're the only ones feeling horrible, and feeling like they think horrible things, and thinking that was not okay. Sometimes it is, and I have found a blog that has let me know that it's okay, and I wanted to share it with the rest of you out there. The web address is cant-get-pregnant. com

Hope this helps!

[DukesMommy12]

I feel the same way, but giving up hope isnt going to help. Im sending Baby Dust and happy thoughts your way.

I really hope you get a sticky BFP soon

[~Lynda~]

i can't even put into words anymore how I feel about this whole thing! i never dreamed God would take 4 babies away from me!!! never!! but i have faith and believe he knows best. So I will perservere!

[~*Jackie*~]

I'm sorry you're going through this. Unfortunately, even for a healthy couple, there's only a 20% chance of getting pregnant each month, and it can take up to a year (or longer) for a healthy couple to get pregnant. Hopefully you'll have your BFP soon.

[SKGirl]

I am sorry that you feel so down. I am happy that I starting to get testing done as soon as I did (turned out my LH was low so now I am taking clomid). Have you asked about getting some bloodwork done or SA on your DH?

[lindanena]

I can only imagine how you feel, cause I have been going through the same thing. This is the reason I had to enter a site like this to express my feelings and find support. A hug your way Don't give up!

[snsgirl336]

I'm sorry this is so difficult for you! I think we all can feel how you're feeling. Try your best to stay positive eventhough I know it's hard! Big HUGS!