[lindanena]

Hi ladies, just wanted to vent.... my period came on today! and I tried with my hubby very diciplined to make it happen, charted, looked at the ovulation date and all, checked staying in bed longer with legs elevated (sorry for the TMI) ... and nothing!!!
Irritates me and frustrates me so much, because I am still not sure what I am not doing right, am I not calculating properly when I am suppose to ovulate, or don't I have the lenght of my cycles right..
I am confused if I am 22, 25 or 28 days cycle... cause the period keeps on changing at times on the dates it is suppose to arrive. Next month we will go a year of trying!!!

[~Lynda~]

if you temp, you will be able to tell when you ovulate. then you need to check out if your luteal phase (time from O to AF) is long enough to support a pregnancy. when cycles are irratic, it can be a sign of a luteal phase defect, which is easily fixed, but will cause problems if not addressed. do you chart on fertility friend?

i'm so sorry AF showed! i know how upsetting it is. HUGS

[lindanena]

Hi Lynda, yes been charting on fertility friend. I will start taking the temp too and will look into discussing with the Dr. the luteal phase thing you'r mentioning, thanks for the tips!!! still having you in prayer

[Servilia]

hi Lina I'm sorry
I know how you feel - it's been almost a year for us too - except I know I am BDing at the right time and my LP is long enough.. so I'm also kind of lost..

We're here for you - and KUP!

[SKGirl]

Hi, I am sorry that things are not working out for you. I hope that the doctor can do some blood tests on you so that you can figure out if there is anything wrong. Wish you the best!!

[lindanena]

Thank you for the support ladies!! so needed!

[snsgirl336]

I'm so sorry about Af. It's so hard to see that after an especially hopeful cycle. I would definitely do what Lynda suggested about you LP. Also, do you use okps or a fertility monitor? They can help you determine when you're going to have the LH surge so you can time your BDing better. Temping really only confirms that you did O- but is important for checking you LP.
Big hugs and I hope you can figure this all out soon!

[TheOnlyPink]

i'm so sorry af showed up! i think the other girls gave great advice, temping really gives you an insight into whats going on. I hope you can get some answers soon and get that bfp!