[Blue Eyes 409]

OK Jessie goes to her Dads house for the summer. Court order said that he get her from 1 week after school lets out till one week before and I get 1 week vacation in the summer. So to cut it short I get 3 weeks in the summer with her and every other weekend and Wednesdays 5:00 till 7:30

So I sent him a letter and ask him if he could get her the 1st week that school is out and let her come back 3 weeks early where he still gets the same amount of time with her BUT she gets to come home on July 21 and her sister will be here on July 11. Jessie is REALLY wanting to do this. If he does not take the deal she will come home July 28th

Now his reply is if I give up ALL 8 of my Wednesdays He will Take her the week early and I will get her back on the 21 but if I am not willing to give up ALL 8 of my Wednesdays then he will not take her till the week after and she will miss another week with Paige.

So I wondering WHY do I have to give up ALL of my Wednesdays for him to do this for Jessie. What should I do?

[BobbiC]

AAWW.. He doesn't sound like a very reasonable person. Does he not have a heart? Geez, his daughter wants to be there to see her new baby sister and welcome her to the world.


It is a tough decision to make, do what you think is best. You shouldn't have to give up Wednesday's for this.

i dont understand why ur ex cant give up a week for ur daughter... she wants to come home early he should let her.

u should not have to give up all ur wednesday... he is beeing a 2 year throwing a tantrum!

[Blue Eyes 409]

I Know he is such a butt he does not think about anything but making my life hard on me. To be honest he don't care if Jessie will be here for her sister or not. I can't miss seeing her everyother weekend that is just to hard on both of us. I guess I have a lot of thinking to do this weekend.

[Katlynsmommy]

it should be up to jessie what she wants to do hon,she is old enough to decide.

[Blue Eyes 409]

I know Jessie should be able to decide BUT she is at her Dads till Sunday and I have to reply to him when I pick her up so I really can't talk to her about it.

[Katlynsmommy]

Well when u go see her pull her off to the side and ask her,i am sure she would want to be known of what is going on,and get her opinion on what she wants,i think that would be the best,i do that with katlyn.i talk to her before i choose what is gonna happen.good luck u know how to reach me