I'm driving myself crazy please adivse!!!!!!!!!!

-hopeful- · #1 September 13th, 2010, 05:46 AM

So AF was due yesterday at the latest. I believe you count cycle day from day of first period to first day of next period. (correct me if I am wrong) With that being said in the last 8 months I have NEVER gone longer than 32 days. Today is CD33. I tested this morning with a digi and BFN

What is going on????? I'm obviously going to give AF today to show up. According to my chart I'm 11DPO. And I O'd on CD22. Last month I O'd on CD17. Doesn't that seem like a HUGE jump????? I'm using OPK but this is only my second month. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?! I'm going crazy here. I just want to get my BFP or AF so I can MOVE ON!!!!! If she doesn't show today how long do I wait to call my doctor? Also, take a look at my chart...what is up with my temps??? They are so crazy I'm not hopeful anymore this month. Last month I had a PERFECT chart according to my doctor. (This is only my second month temping). To make matters worse I'm am always kinda crampy all month long so I NEVER know when AF is going to show....she just pops up.

Advise please!!!!

TheOnlyPink · #2 September 13th, 2010, 06:18 AM

hi!
because you O'd later than usual, af will be later. last cycle you had a 13 day luteal phase. the luteal phase usually stays very consistant so you shouldnt expect your af until the 14th day after your ovulation. you still have a few days to go! still plenty of time for a bfp!
hope that helped!

~Lynda~ · #3 September 13th, 2010, 06:40 AM

digi's too can be inaccurate at 11dpo. i would get a line test and see if you see a faint line. it's still pretty early!!! good luck i've got my fingers crossed for you!

~*Jackie*~ · #4 September 13th, 2010, 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Mom2J

hi!
because you O'd later than usual, af will be later. last cycle you had a 13 day luteal phase. the luteal phase usually stays very consistant so you shouldnt expect your af until the 14th day after your ovulation. you still have a few days to go! still plenty of time for a bfp!
hope that helped!

You probably won't be expecting AF for another day or two if your LP stays at 13 days (time between your ovulation and AF).

-hopeful- · #5 September 13th, 2010, 04:59 PM

Well AF is about to be here. I just got home from work and peed and showered and I'm having some brown spotting (gross I know) but it happens right before the active bleeding starts. I was so hopeful for this month. BD right on schedule with my OPK....boobs were not sore (which never happened before) period was late.....I really thought this could have been it.

The only upside is I'm seeing the fertility specialist in 2 1/2 weeks. I just don't get it! I'm BD like crazy and its still not happening!!! What else could I possibly do?!?!?! How come some people get pregnant so easily?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?