[BobbiC]

Hi ladies! Hope everyone is well. I am feeling really down today. AF came and she should be gone tomorrow and the thought of TTC this month again with no BFP is depressing. I just don't know if I have it in me to keep trying. We are starting cycle 16. How much longer till our BFP?? I just don't know if I can do it anymore but DH doesn't want me to giveup.






Maybe I would feel better if I at least had my appointment to see a specialist, who knows. I started week 4 of ovulex today. I would like to think that it will work but not sure if I have the strength for TTC much longer.




Thanks iamkc for the help with understanding the charting in my other post.

[Blue Eyes 409]

I am so sorry I can not tell you how many times I too wanted to give up. But trust me when you finally get that BFP it will be so worth it. We are always here for you.

[Katlynsmommy]

aww sweetie u know what u need to maybe take a breather.if u temp dont do it,if u chart just chart your bd'ng. try and relax a bit.go and get a massage.i have a great massage kit that i make!! dh use on me its full of natural oils inc lavendar and other minerals.but it helps relax the body.try taking that approach,if u are starting to think that bd'ng is a chore then it will never work hon. bd'ng shouldnt be a chore and when u get to that point u need to step back a bit.and realize stress will not help.I know its easier said than done sweetie.i hope i dont come across as being some kind of stuck up snob b/c im really not lol.im just trying to help. if u need to talk u can pm me anytime

Kim

[BobbiC]

I know you are not a snob. You didn't come across like that. You are giving some very good advise.

I just starting temping this month hoping things will change, the massage sounds good though. I am going to try and just take it easy the next couple days and see how I feel.

BD is not a chore yet. If it ever becomes a chore then I will relax about this whole TTC thing.

[Katlynsmommy]

phew thank god i didnt want to have ya be upset with me lol

[jlk]

I know exactly how you feel. As each cycle comes and goes, the more I myself want to just give up. I try not to think about TTC and relax, yada, yada, but I still think about it. You can never just stop thinking about it. Plus, I know it is so hard to not get something you really want. Especially when those around you make it look so easy!

I have honestly forced myself to relax about the whole thing a little. I don't temp anymore and sometimes I take a break from JM. I have found lots of hobbies to engross myself into too.

Just hang in there. Your day will come. I hope you will be able to go to a specialist to get more answers. Good luck!