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November 4th, 2010, 12:12 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Wisconsin
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one of my girlfriends sent me a link to a forum where there is a pregnant mom who is seriously thinking about giving her child up for adoption because she is having a boy and she wants a girl. i just can't believe there are really people out there like that... your thoughts?
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November 4th, 2010, 12:57 PM
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**Linda**
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I really really can't even begin to comprehend. Just more evidence that life indeed is not fair. And that you should probably be required to pass a competency exam before being allowed to have children.
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November 4th, 2010, 01:39 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sassy9679
I really really can't even begin to comprehend. Just more evidence that life indeed is not fair. And that you should probably be required to pass a competency exam before being allowed to have children.
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I totally agree with you on that one!
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November 4th, 2010, 05:46 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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It breaks my heart to think that someone would think about something like that while we are sitting here not able to get and/or stay pregnant. If I could, I would email that woman and tell her a thing or 2, then offer to adopt her baby.
It bothers me when people forget to be thankful for what they are able to have. Having a baby is not like a gumball machine. You can't just keep trying and giving away your baby until you get the one you want.
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November 5th, 2010, 09:00 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Alberta, Canada
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It leaves me speechless. Maybe she should give her baby up for adoption if that's her attitude.
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November 8th, 2010, 08:08 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Wisconsin
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many women did blast her on this thread, but she kept answering with cold answers. it's sickening!
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November 8th, 2010, 08:43 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: The Land of Infertility
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Quote:
Originally Posted by KDD
It leaves me speechless. Maybe she should give her baby up for adoption if that's her attitude.
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I agree. Poor baby is probably better off with a Mommy who wants and love him unconditionally.
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Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 33 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.
IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
March 2011- February 2012: On BCP due to endometriosis.
March 2012- taking a few months off of BCP and we are TTC naturally.
We will re-evaluate another IVF w/FET try in 2013.

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November 8th, 2010, 10:03 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Disgusting. She should be sterilized permanently.
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November 8th, 2010, 01:45 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Paducah, KY
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Thats pretty horrible and disgusting. I cant help but be curious though if you'd be willing to link to this forum? Im obviously not going to blast her, my nosiness just kicks in and I find myself wanting to stalk her previous posts and whatnot...
Either way, she's ridiculous and doesnt deserve her child
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November 9th, 2010, 05:10 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Southern PA
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I will happily adopt her baby... *sigh... If she only understood how some couples have to struggle so hard to just try to have one baby.
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November 9th, 2010, 06:14 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Paducah, KY
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Missy! I see you JUST quit smoking too! Looks about the same time as me! The end of today makes 9 days smoke free! Yay!
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November 9th, 2010, 06:58 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Southern PA
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Really?? How cool is that! I smoked for at least 25 years.... Both of my husbands parents died of cancer and he asked me to at least cut down to 2 cigs a day for him. He wants me to be around for a while  So here I am... 10 days down and going completely insane! I hope it gets easier because this is tough.
How are you doing? Why did you quit? Congratulations to you!!
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November 10th, 2010, 07:50 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Wisconsin
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congrats to both you ladies!!!!
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November 10th, 2010, 09:18 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: St. Louis, MO
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That is DISGUSTING! This just pisses me off!
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