OH............

AlexBebe · #1 June 5th, 2006, 02:17 PM

So I caved and tested this morning........12 DPO........BFN. I cried my eyes out!! My chart is pointing to pregnancy, I hit every day perfectly, how can this be?

I am so sad today.

AF is due on Wednesday.

I'm still hoping she doesn't show.

Alex

#2 June 5th, 2006, 02:44 PM

I am sooo sorry, but you still have time. I know it is horrible to see a negative. My AF is due on Wednesday also, but I am going to wait for AF to show. I can't stand to go through to again.

I will keep you in my prayers and hope that you get your BFP in the next couple of days. Don't give up yet. Good luck.

#3 June 5th, 2006, 03:01 PM

Don't lose hope.

I totally understand how you feel (7 months of BFNs over here!) I know it's hard seeing BFN after BFN...

don't give up until the witch shows. I'm not!

Blue Eyes 409 · #4 June 5th, 2006, 03:07 PM

Your chart looks great. Try not to get upset about the BFN I got a BFP the day before my AF was due then got a BFP the day AF was due! There is always hope till AF is here.

rollopodio · #5 June 5th, 2006, 04:19 PM

if the chart still looks good then a bfp is not out of the question yet!! i know how tough it is to see those bfn's though. hang in there.

AlexBebe · #6 June 5th, 2006, 05:32 PM

Thank you so much for your kind support and words of encouragement. It is nice to hear that it's possible to get the BFP on the day AF is due. I was just so sure that this was the month. I felt awesome all month, DH and I truly enjoyed each other (no silly arguments), work is busy but relatively stressfree, and my chart did some different things this month. To wake up this morning, take my temp, and then pee on the stick only to see that BFN - it was just so sad. When I called DH this afternoon to give him the bad news (he worked nights last night so I didn't wake him up this morning) he too sounded really disappointed. He knows that I want to throw in the towel, and be happy with my one DD - so he immediately offered me his words of inspiration. I know that we have only been at this for 7 months or so, and there are women on here who have been trying for years - but I truly believe that we are all feeling the same disappointment, feelings of desperation, feelings of helplessness, anger, confusion etc.

I'm still holding onto the possibility that af won't show - but I've had twinges all day on my right side. I don't know if they are af cramps or not (Boy do I hope they are some how associated with pregnancy!).

Thanks again ladies,
This would be one lonely journey without you!

Alex