Finding Out Others are Pregnant

Sassy9679 · #1 February 9th, 2011, 08:24 AM

So I just found out a girl in my Bible Study is pregnant. She's been married about a year-and-a-half. And she's due in August. It just made me really sad. I don't usually get down about TTC, but today I did. My husband is India for work, and I'm stuck at home, snowed in again in Dallas. So I'm just feeling a little by-myself right now.

This is the first time I've cried when finding out someone was pregnant. Sigh.

Ansleysmoma · #2 February 9th, 2011, 07:09 PM

Awww, that just brought tears to my eyes. I've been there. I usually cry monthly when I see a BFN. Hang in there. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Read the message boards. It helps me so much to read about other women who are going through the exact same thing I'm going through. We are all right there with you. Hope tomorrow is better for you.

~Lynda~ · #3 February 15th, 2011, 08:00 AM

big big hugs to you!!! You will appreciate it so much more, when it happens!!! i promise!!!! I waited almost three years and went through four miscarriages. it is so worth it in the end! baby dust to you and the biggest hugs i have!

GeniusMommy · #4 February 17th, 2011, 04:18 AM

You are not alone! I just deleted over 300 people off of my Facebook page because I was so sick of seeing all of my friends getting pregnant and not being able to myself. We have been trying since may of 2010 and my husband is traveling on business as well so I know EXACTLY how you feel!

forever_hopeful · #5 March 3rd, 2011, 02:45 PM

I totally understand.... It seems like everyone I know is pregnant now. And I was the only one actively TTC. My best friend (we work together) almost passed out at work last week. I started talking to her. She told me "Well, I missed last month but I was waiting until the beginning of march to see if I started." Her last period was 12/24/2010. I had been having some symptoms, but I was only on CD 23. I usually start on CD 27 or 28. I went and bought tests and we took them at work. Her's was a very bold, dark BFP. She went to the doctor and everything. She's like 9 or 10 weeks along now. Idk. I started on CD 24, but it only lated 2 or 3 days off and on. I cried every night.

Baby Girl McD's Mommy · #6 March 3rd, 2011, 03:02 PM

One of my best guy friends just found out that his wife (that he's been married to for 4 months, and has only been in the states with her for about one month) is pregnant. I selfishly told him that I couldn't talk to him until I had had time to cope. We've talked now, but I'm still mad about it.