Well, I have reached a year of trying. I have finally reached my limit and I can't do this any more. This is quits for me. I told dh that he has to realize that it is not going to happen. Secretly, I knew this awhile back and have made my peace with it. I just can't do this any more.

Today is 17 dpo and I tested BFN. I think it is the stress delaying my cycle. I don't think for a minute that I am pregnant. So, now I am praying for AF to come so that things can get back to normal.

I will hang around a bit in 6 Months + to do the monthly chart, but I won't be participating much on the site. I pray that everyone will get there BFP soon. Good luck.

oh sweetie i am sorry. i hope things get better for u and hubby.

wish u all the luck

maybe if u "give up or forget about it" it will happen when u least expect it.

[BobbiC]

Aww hun. I'm so sorry.

I agree maybe if you forget about it it will happen on its own.

[nbbang]

Well, I have reached a year of trying. I have finally reached my limit and I can't do this any more. This is quits for me. I told dh that he has to realize that it is not going to happen. Secretly, I knew this awhile back and have made my peace with it. I just can't do this any more.

Today is 17 dpo and I tested BFN. I think it is the stress delaying my cycle. I don't think for a minute that I am pregnant. So, now I am praying for AF to come so that things can get back to normal.

I will hang around a bit in 6 Months + to do the monthly chart, but I won't be participating much on the site. I pray that everyone will get there BFP soon. Good luck.[/b]

Hey I just want you to know that I have been there exactly how you are feeling & know how discouraging it is to try month after month with no success. I had to try for almost 2 years til I got my 1st BFP & I know several other girls that try for more than a year (sometimes more than even 2 years) and are perfectly normal it just took a long time for some reason for pregnancy to occur.

So don't give up. I actually think it's a good thing to get to the point where you are so tired of the TTC obsession that you can give it up for awhile and just relax a bit. I am not saying that is how you are feeling right now, but I just mean that is how I have felt in the past & being un-obsessed with TTC is a great feeling and helps for when you get to the point of wanting to start TTC full force again.

Best wishes to you for a BFP in your future!!!

[Blue Eyes 409]

Georgia, Don't give up till AF is here you may have implanted late. I know how hard it is I was ready to quit on my 13th cycle and that is when my DR gave me clomid and I finally got my BFP the next month. I understand how you feel but never quit!