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June 25th, 2006, 04:37 PM
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JR and I have had a very hard few months and have been talking about divorce for a while and just this week we have decided that he is going to move out when I go back to work from Having the baby. I am just having such a hard time with everything we just got in a big fight again and I had just got home from taking Jessie back to her Dad's and getting mad at him so I am sitting here in tears so upset at how everything has gone. I really thought this would be the happiest time of my life and I have had everything go wrong. I feel like I am never going to be loved. I was really hoping that when I told him I wanted a divorce he would try to be my husband and we could work things out.
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June 25th, 2006, 04:53 PM
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Oh I am so sorry that it has come to this. I have been there - pregnant, and it really isn't easy. I hope you have great friends and family that can support you through this transition. Be sure to seek medical help if you need it (I know I did) because those girls are going to need you even more.
Stay strong, and have faith.
I'll be thinking about you.
Alex
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June 25th, 2006, 05:47 PM
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AAWW hun! I am so sorry. 
You have always been my rock through this ttc battle. If you want to talk or need anything at all please let me know.
Please don't think that you won't find someone to love. You are a great person and you will find someone to love you the way you deserve to be loved.
Maybe he will think about it and realize he does want to work it out and you can try counselling.
You will be in my thoughts. Stay strong for your girls and remember that you have many friends here.
Bobbi.
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June 25th, 2006, 10:22 PM
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i am so sorry you have to go through this. i will be thinking of you.
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June 25th, 2006, 10:57 PM
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Aww hun I'm so sorry. You will be in my thoughts. Stay strong.
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June 25th, 2006, 11:12 PM
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Thanks everyone this has just been so hard on me and I know it is for the best I did it on my own with Jessie and I know I will be fine. I just feel like I have let people down because I have failed at another Marriage and now Paige has to grow up without her Dad.
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June 26th, 2006, 06:49 AM
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Sandy sorry to hear about your pending divorce. Sometimes these things are for the best. I know from experience as I was married once before, we split up after my son passed.
I also know that it can be very hard raising 2 kids on your own...did that too for 5 years. My older girls bio-father and I weren't married but together a few years when we split. I was at the end of my pregnancy with DD#2 when we split.
I was a single mom for 5 years like I said and it was hard but we made it and I am now in a much better place in life....with a fantastic new(nearly 3 yrs married) husband. Who is a much better father than the bio.
So I am more than sure you'll get through this. Just make sure you have some support.
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June 26th, 2006, 07:00 AM
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I am so sorry! I will be thinking of you and hoping that all works out for the best.
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June 26th, 2006, 02:13 PM
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Sandy-I haven't checked in to TTC for awhile and I am just so sorry to hear this. Just know that you are a wonderful person who deserves love and support from your husband. I will be thinking of you.
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June 26th, 2006, 02:35 PM
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I'm sorry. I haven't been there, but I know many people who have. We're here for you. I know you can do this. Your girls are going to be strong too. I think and pray for you.
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June 26th, 2006, 04:58 PM
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JR and I have had a very hard few months and have been talking about divorce for a while and just this week we have decided that he is going to move out when I go back to work from Having the baby. I am just having such a hard time with everything we just got in a big fight again and I had just got home from taking Jessie back to her Dad's and getting mad at him so I am sitting here in tears so upset at how everything has gone. I really thought this would be the happiest time of my life and I have had everything go wrong. I feel like I am never going to be loved. I was really hoping that when I told him I wanted a divorce he would try to be my husband and we could work things out.[/b]
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i am so sorry sweety. im sure it will all work out and he wont be able to live without you. and if not, its his loss. Your a great person and we all love you! you ARE loved! hang in there..i know how your feeling right now, sad and alone. just hang in there, pretty soon you will have paige and you wont need a man!
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June 26th, 2006, 05:59 PM
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Oh, Sandy, I'm so sorry. I know that it's been a difficult few months, especially added to the stress of being pregnant! If JR can't see what an amazing person he's losing, it truly is his loss. I just wish that you didn't think that you failed. You most certainly did NOT! You've tried, you've made that clear. And if he's not ready to assume his role as a good husband and father, then perhaps it's time to let go and do what's best for you and your girls. I know that it's SO hard, but you HAVE done it before, you've proven yourself to be a strong superwoman and don't ever feel sorry for Paige not growing up with her father. She has an AMAZING mother!!!
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June 27th, 2006, 06:19 AM
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Sandy - sending you hugs and best wishes. I am sure it is so hard, but you are a strong woman. Dont worry about what others think. It is your life and you will be a wonderful mother to those two beautiful girls!
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June 28th, 2006, 07:03 AM
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oh my gosh. i just now saw this post! sandy i'm so sorry you are going through this tough time right now. i hope everything works out for you. only you know what is best for you and your family. if i can do anything let me know.
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June 28th, 2006, 08:12 AM
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Oh Sandy, I am so sorry to hear this. You are a very strong woman and you will be fine. Just please don't feel as if you have failed!!
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June 28th, 2006, 09:06 AM
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Sandy! I just saw this!!! You are SUCH A SWEET WOMAN! You don't deserve this!!!!!!!!! YOU HAVE NOT FAILED-- HE DID!!!!!!!! I am so sorry it has come to this. I will call you soon so we can talk about it.
((HUGS))
XOXO
Amie
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June 28th, 2006, 11:44 AM
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Sandy i am soooo sorry.
I hope things work out after the baby.
If not i hope you are both happy in your lives.
((((hugs))))
Sarah 
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June 28th, 2006, 07:31 PM
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Oh Sandy I am so sorry! You, Jessie and Paige are in my prayers. ((((Hugs))))
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June 29th, 2006, 08:30 PM
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Wow, look what I miss when I am too busy to get onto the boards. I am so sorry you are going through this. I will be thinking about you and praying that you will stay strong. I wish I could be there to give you a big hug and support. Please keep us posted and if you ever ever need to vent we are always here for you.
There will always be someone out there to love you. You have not failed! Please remember that.
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June 29th, 2006, 09:18 PM
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I am sorry you are going through this! 
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