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October 21st, 2012, 10:55 AM
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You know our problems and situation.....

Is it really a good idea to ttc? Is there any chance of this ending happily?
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October 21st, 2012, 11:51 AM
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I am hoping for a happy ending for you. I know you guys have struggles, but you deserve to have this. If you don't try, it CAN'T happen. At least if you try, it's possible. but I understand how you feel right now. (hugs)
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October 21st, 2012, 01:03 PM
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I was really going through a questioning it all while on the train.

A young couple.. say mid 20's both of them with a must have been 3 month old discussing her new pregnancy they have just found out about.

Then I got my reflection in the glass as its dark outside and I was sat there.. much older with a 7 year old wanting another baby... I don't know...

I am TTCing too late???
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October 21st, 2012, 01:21 PM
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No. I don't think you are TTC too late.

I think miracles do happen and I KNOW you deserve this, Clare. If you tell me not to give up, given our circumstances, then I say you shouldn't give up! You are always in my prayers to have another child. It may take awhile but I believe it will happen for you
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October 21st, 2012, 01:38 PM
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Clare, I understand that. That's how I feel right now too. Am I not meant to have more kids? It's a sucky way to feel. I'm sorry you feel that way. I feel like there is a rainbow waiting for you, though.
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October 21st, 2012, 01:57 PM
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I know....

I just know that with our age and our lifestyle, also our problems when it comes to fertility I can not put my life into it. I have done that before and I regret it because basically I got pregnant after 6 months of ntnp. I also got pregnant this time after 1.5 years ntnp. I know I lost my last baby but I did conceive so at least we have a possibility.

Has time run out for us though? Was the baby we lost our only chance of becoming parents?

I can't give up. I keep saying ill ntnp after the new year but I know I wont as at least charting if timing is off. I do not hope where if I ntnp I would hope and be broken every cycle.

I just do not know...

You only live once.. can I have my life and lifestyle and also TTC with the possibility its for nothing?
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October 21st, 2012, 01:57 PM
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Clare, I you. You do deserve this and you aren't TTC too late. It seems Tony has been getting a little better about finishing which is super awesome. I believe you will get your rainbow baby.
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October 21st, 2012, 02:01 PM
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Thanks guys.. if it was not for your hope for me... I would not have hope with anything at all.
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