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October 27th, 2012, 04:56 PM
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I figured since we have all been TTC for quite a while this would be a good topic. Around O time and not around O... what do you ladies do to keep your sex lives smoking hot? No topic is off limits! What are your tips and tricks for getting hubby into it and not feeling like it's a chore during that O week where there's so much stress trying to have sex on the right days?

Personally, I love sex. We will try anything and everything and have had a fantastic and active sex life in the past.. But after so long of trying, during "O Week", I sometimes fall into the "let's just get this done to make sure it's done" type of thinking, rather than a having "gourmet sex" (which is theorized to be better for conceiving anyway). We also, at one point, fell into the having sex only during O week trap for a couple of months. But Sex should be hot and full of love and often it can be a "let's just do this" type of thing because we are so focused on baby making.

What do you ladies do to keep it hot and heavy? hehe
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October 28th, 2012, 05:00 AM
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We love sex, due to our problem we can't always guarantee that we get to bd. I think if you remember that after having a baby sex is still needed, if not for us then for him, you realise you need to keep it spiced up. I feel into the sex for baby trap and when serenity came along I didn't want sex, I forgot what it was all about after 2.5 years ttc.. I won't fall into the same rut this time.
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October 29th, 2012, 06:40 AM
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I wish that I could say that our sex life is still smokin. It really has cooled so much ever since we started TTC. Don't get me wrong we still have our moments, but it's nothing like it used to be. I really do miss that.

I'm glad that you are DH seem to have found a good balance.
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October 29th, 2012, 08:57 AM
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I wish I could say the same as well. Our sex life hasn't been the same since hubby started his current job. He's always tired, but somehow we find time.
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October 29th, 2012, 01:01 PM
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I didn't mean to say that mine was. It used to be and I want ideas to get that back too, tho we have a good balance for now.
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October 29th, 2012, 01:35 PM
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I would love some ideas, but it's hard sometimes. I don't want to mention it here on the public board though.
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October 29th, 2012, 01:43 PM
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I would love some ideas, but it's hard sometimes. I don't want to mention it here on the public board though.
I agree ideas would be great. Not something that I want to post here for all the world to see though.
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October 29th, 2012, 05:14 PM
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Yeah i'm not sure I want to discuss it publicly either. Someone start a thread in the hideaway!
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October 29th, 2012, 05:48 PM
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Whoops! I I should have posted this in the hideaway, I just forgot it existed.
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October 30th, 2012, 06:55 AM
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How does the hideaway work? I know this is silly I've been on this site for over a year and I've never entered one of the hideaways.
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October 30th, 2012, 09:40 AM
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I need to invite you, Audrey. I will send it now
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October 30th, 2012, 01:19 PM
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I started a thread in the hideaway and I sent you an invite, Audrey.
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October 30th, 2012, 01:41 PM
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I started a thread in the hideaway and I sent you an invite, Audrey.
Cool. Thanks
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