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October 29th, 2012, 06:00 AM
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I'm over this cycle and I'm over TTC. I can't stand it any more. I thought for sure this cycle would be easier to deal with because I was using OPK and Temping. but it's not any better! I don't know when I o'ed, if I've o'ed, or if I will ever o. It's just annoying. Why cant I have a perfect cycle
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October 29th, 2012, 06:31 AM
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Awe, hon, I'm so sorry But if you aren't Oing, at least now you know, so if it keeps happening you can get some help!
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October 29th, 2012, 06:41 AM
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I'm sorry that you are feeling discouraged with this cycle. There is nothing more frustrating than not knowing where you are in your cycle. I totally understand the feeling like you're walking around in the dark. Have you been to the Dr. yet for a blood test to find out if you are ovulating, or is this just an off cycle for you? Sorry if this is information that you have already posted, but I was only in and out a few times this last month, so I'm a little behind.
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October 29th, 2012, 06:58 AM
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No I haven't been to the dr yet. I went from a 21 day cycle to a 44 day cycle the last two months.. and right now I think I'm on cycle day 30? or 31? I need to look. I called the dr last month when this was happening and had an apt but when my AF finally showed they said I didn't need to come in any more. DH is weird about me going to the dr because he thinks i'm just doing it to my self, ie stress, worrying. etc. but its just really frustrating.
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October 29th, 2012, 07:21 AM
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How would you not need to come in anymore? You can still get your period and not ovulate.
I would call them again... and if they say the same thing, I would get another opinion from a different doctor.
Good luck hun and hope this is all figured out for you soon.
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October 29th, 2012, 08:07 AM
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I agree with the other ladies.

I would go see a doctor.
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October 29th, 2012, 08:33 AM
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My DH is pretty funny about me going to the doctor as well, and even talking about TTC. I just do the doctor thing and don't really talk to him much about it. Is it possible for you to just go and not tell him? If that's not possible maybe you could try explaing to him how unnerving this is for you, and that it would really help you to relax if you could just go to the doctor just to know.
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October 29th, 2012, 08:40 AM
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I think I will give it to cd 40 if I haven't had anything change at all I will call the dr. and I will just tell him that is what I want to do and he will be fine with it.. he thinks i'm just being a hypochondraic because in his mind we are "ntnp" i mean he knows how bad I want a baby and he says it all the time too but he wants to just let it happen.
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October 29th, 2012, 09:15 AM
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I think I will give it to cd 40 if I haven't had anything change at all I will call the dr. and I will just tell him that is what I want to do and he will be fine with it.. he thinks i'm just being a hypochondraic because in his mind we are "ntnp" i mean he knows how bad I want a baby and he says it all the time too but he wants to just let it happen.
That sounds like a good plan.

I don't think you're being a Hypochondriac. It must be really hard for our DHs to wrap their heads around how much we want this, and how much we want it now not later. Even though they do want kids I just don't think they have the same passionate desire that we have. It's probably also hard for them to understand how short of a window we have to work with each cycle, and how we can't miss that window or the whole cycle is a waste. All they have to do is be ready when we say go whereas we have to spend the entire month temping, and doing OPKs and check our CP and CM, etc. After so many cycles it wears on a person.
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October 29th, 2012, 05:02 PM
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Do you think you really did ovulate last cycle on CD39? I ask because you had just started temping and your LP was so short. If you did, then might as well wait and see if you O the same time this cycle. It's still late though so I would consider going to see a doctor even if you do O. especially since that means you would also have an LP problem. I think they may want to see three wonky cycles in a row but no harm making an appointment. But I would probably wait until you know whether or not you are going to O near the same time this cycle because that might be helpful for them to know.
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October 30th, 2012, 05:57 AM
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I have no clue when I o'ed last cycle honestly. FF just put those CH in there for me lol You make a good point though.. I will def watch and wait around that time.. I just don't understand how all of my OPKs are negative. every single one.. sometimes I will have a hint of a line (still negative i know) and then I will test 10-12 hours later and its completely white. It really doesnt make any sense.. I've been looking at my chart and there are a few times this cycle that I really thought I was going to O and then it just dropped down.. especially since my CM has like disappeared..
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October 30th, 2012, 08:44 AM
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Do you sleep with your mouth open at night? That can affect your temp.
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October 30th, 2012, 08:52 AM
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i have no clue lol i am going to temp vag next cycle if it ever comes.
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October 30th, 2012, 08:57 AM
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The reason I ask is because two cycles ago, when I had a cold, I slept with my mouth open at night. We eat a lot of dairy too, so I was congested too. Anyways, my temps were all wacky and I stopped temping when my boobs started feeling tender because that's how I know I'm officially in the 2ww. Do you have anything that triggers you to know you are in the 2ww?
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October 30th, 2012, 09:23 AM
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nope. this cycle is the first cycle I have ever actually done any tracking on.. when I first had my BC removed my periods were exactly 28, 28, 21, 38, 21, 44, and now this cycle. the only thing I ever tracked were howlong they were lol
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