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December 16th, 2012, 06:16 PM
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Trying to be happy for my best friend I try not to avoid the convo of her new pregnancy but if I ask too many questions or try to be happy it just makes me sad. And the other day when we were talking I told her how I will be upset if I don't ovulate again this month an she was like "we'll having two kids will be hard you need to cherish the Time you have with mason right now" like all of the sudden she's a pro. And it just really upset me
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December 16th, 2012, 09:53 PM
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I'm sorry. I hate when people say stuff like that. Just because you want another kid doesn't mean you don't cherish the one you have. And it's harder to be there for and enjoy your time with Mason when you know your body isn't working properly. So it would actually be easier to cherish your time with him if you ovulated! At least that's how I feel.
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December 17th, 2012, 01:07 AM
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Aww Hun I'm in exactly the same place right now, my best friend of 19 years is now 6 months pregnant and it's so hard! She started TTC about a two months before me after coming off BC and fell pretty quick but with me it's taking so long I've found it easier as her pregnancy progresses to get excited for her but at first I was just a bitter ball of jealousy! Everyone says "you need to remember this is her first and you already have your first" grrr, like that makes TTC any easier!? I hope things get better for you soon
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December 17th, 2012, 08:36 AM
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I'm sorry, Andrea. I hate when people say stuff like that.
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December 17th, 2012, 08:39 AM
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Thanks guys.. it's really annoying.. and I mentioned something to DH about it.. and he was like "well now you guys will be fighting all the time because you are jealous" and it's true.. I am jealous.. and I have been getting really annoyed with stuff she has been saying.. but I will try to be a better person and try to not feel so **** bitter. It's so awful. She only had to try for 2 cycles and BOOM she's pregnant.. and I just want it so bad when I first started TTC she said she was fine with just having one for right now and she thought it would be crazy to have more than one.. and then BOOM she and her DH are ttc and having more babies lol blah. I need to let it go and I need to be happy for her and move on.. I will get my chance.. just like the rest of us will too! one way or another we will all get our babies.
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December 17th, 2012, 02:42 PM
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I'm sorry I know it's hard. It's super hard for me because the ladies I work with are getting pregnant left and right and me and DH are trying to hard. Keep your head up
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December 18th, 2012, 09:14 AM
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I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with this. I really hope that you get your BFP this cycle so that you can join your friend and find joy in both of your pregnancies.
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December 24th, 2012, 04:10 PM
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Wow that was a little insensitive of her. I am sorry you have to be in that situation.

I am sorry any of you have had to be in those types of situations. TTC or not we all cherish what we have, just because we want a chld doesnt mean we forgot what else we have.

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