With my son Ryan i didn't know I was preggo so I thought i had real bad gas til it got so bad I could hardly stand and I had to wait for my sis to get home and take me to the er cuz my bf and I didn't have a car. Well She took us and on the way I couldn't even sit so I was turned facing the back of the car the whole way and my sister seen a cop at a 7-11 so she whipped in there and ran in and got him. I really thought i was dying cuz before we left the house I went pee and i felt something bulging down there (hishead was crowning!) so he called an ambulace and all the while I swear i am not preggo and think i am dying. well the ambulance gets there they put me in the back and ask if i am preggo i knew I wasn't so I said no I am just fat well they pulled my shorts off and said his head was crowning. I was the what is doing what ?!?!?! 30 seconds after i got in the ambulance I pushed him out. That was the greatest feeling ever. I was crying i was so scared and dwayne was in the front he was like OMG I looked at him and all I could say was " I made you a daddy!)
With emily I knew i was preggo i was always sick with her. I was 2 days from my due date and I woke up with cramps and gushing fluid( my waters hadn't broke so don't know what it was ) so my sister drove me yet again lol Dwayne was working on our car and we had plenty of false alarms) and I got there and was already 4 or 5 and they said i was having a baby so they moved me to a room and dwayne got there with ryan and it didn't bother him to see me in all that pain the only time he got upset was when someone blocked the tv lol Well I dialated fast. i got there after 10 and had painful fast labor( no eppy) when they broke my waters at 1:47 I was 7 cen and by 1:57 she was out !! I pushed 2 times ! My sis swears they said 3 but I paused in the 2nd push.
I didn't even get to see her delivered cuz i moved so fast they hadn't even broke the bed down

But i did get to tell them not to tell me what she was I wanted to see for myself !!( oh I wanted my son in the room but when I started speed dialating lol they made my sis take him out)
I would love to deliver the nexted at home but i tested pos for strep b and even with my next if i didn't I would be to scared to have a home birth fearing they missed it .
natural- yes
drugs- no
mid wife- I would love to have one
hosbital- have to
in water- that would be so cool
dimmed lights- I would want enough light to see my baby
doctor check every hour- no
ect.?